Can a Dominant Wear a Gag?

Gags are amazing sexual toys that can make the difference between an average sex scene and an amazing one. Couples who are BDSM enthusiasts are also very keen about wearing mouth gags of all kinds but also many other sex toys. A mouth gag can suit all types of fetishes from the common and popular bondage ones to the edge play ones. It is all up to the preferences of both the dominant and the submissive regarding this type of sex scenes and what they want to go for in their intimate experiences. But there is a popular question regarding the curiosity of who can wear a gag during a sexual encounter. The most common answer to that is the submissive partner. This is because the slave partner is the one who should be dominated and who’s opinions and desires don’t matter at least at an apparent level. But can a dominant partner or a mistress for that matter, wear a gag during a sex scene? This question is the root of interesting debates. Some consider that it makes little to no sense for the dominant to wear a gag during any type of sex scene because this would be against the superior nature of a dominant! 

But at a closer look this isn’t such a contradiction because in sexual experiences and especially in BDSM scenes, it is all about freedom and imagination. This means that if you are a submissive today, no one is to say that you can’t be a dominant tomorrow and the other way around. It is important to realize that you can switch roles any time you want and enjoy your sex life from a different perspective as long as you don’t add limits that your body doesn’t need in order to achieve sexual pleasure.

So, you can definitely try wearing a mouth gag in different types of roleplays if you are curios about how that would make you feel. It has nothing to do with you being a dominant because you can always try to be a submissive and see how that works. You might discover that you can find sexual pleasure as a submissive as well and this can only be experienced by walking a little bit in the shoes of a slave which is not very difficult, especially if you have the right sex tools and accessories. Gags work great for medical play for instance so if you have a fetish that implies one of you being a patient, you want to try wearing a mouth gag at least for the fun of it. Since you are a dominant, the pleasure you will get out of such an experience could be quite different from the pleasure a natural submissive would get. But you most likely will develop your own attraction toward wearing submissive outfits like that and you will learn to appreciate both sex roles much more. Not to mention that if you try wearing a gag at least once as a dominant, you will be able to relate with your partner a lot more for those sessions in which they are the submissive. Gags can be part of vanilla sex scenes as well so don’t think you absolutely have to try BDSM scenes when a mouth gag is involved!

What is important when you are wearing a mouth gag is to understand that it is not a symbol of a limited sexual experience in which certain norms need to be respected. You still have the freedom to do what you want and if you want to wear a gag while you are still the dominant one, you should definitely find a way to do that. It takes some imagination and creativity but it is going to be all worth it in the end!

Plus, you and your lover will have plenty of fun switching roles which should be another motivation to wear a mouth gag every now and then even if you are the submissive one in the relationship. A healthy relationship is also based on healthy and exciting experiences among many other aspects and you can’t neglect this type of bonding even if you might be more attracted to your dominant ways. You will notice that while a mouth gag makes you feel more vulnerable and exposed in a hot way, it also gives you a certain level of excitement that you normally wouldn’t experience as a dominant partner. So, it might be a lot better not just for you but also for your entire relationship and for the satisfaction of your love to try out wearing a mouth gag even if you might think that this is not for you!