The process of one partner putting their hand into the other’s vagina is called fisting. I say «process» because it takes some gradual easing to work the whole hand all the way in. On both sides of the equation, fisting can create thrilling and intense pleasure, well worth the care and effort often needed. For the partner who is taking the fist, having the hand of your lover fill you up likely will be super-sensual and arousing. As for the fister, what an exhilarating sensation to watch as your hand disappears at the wrist into your lover’s body. *g*
The fister’s hand should be in a prime, manicured state. This, of course, does not mean that any salon work is necessary. What it means is that things like jagged or rough-edged nails are unacceptable-the nails should be as smooth and short as possible in the interest of comfort and safety. The vagina is a sensitive area and puncturing the inner walls with un-manicured nails is going to be a painful experience which is easily avoided!
While I’m on the topic of comfort, lubrication is an essential for fisting. A water-based lube like the 5100P Moist Gel Lubricant will have a cleaner, smoother feel to it, but multiple reapplications will probably be necessary. If you choose a silicone-based lubricant, like the 3113E Moist Silicone Spray Lubricant, which has a thicker but super-slippery feel, reapplication most likely won’t be an issue as silicone lubes are meant to last a long time. Make sure to use lube on both the vagina and the whole hand before fisting. The sensation of a bare hand may be preferable to some, but fisting with latex gloves can also feel amazingly sexy. The latex gloves, like this favorite, the 2908K Fitted Latex Gloves, will in addition provide an even more slippery effect in conjunction with lube.
Getting hot and heavy with foreplay first will heighten the arousal of both partners, allowing for more relaxation and ease once it’s time for the fist to go in. Having a couple of orgasms first is not a bad idea either-of course, it’s never a bad idea to have a few orgasms! *wink* And while the wide part of the hand is going in, don’t forget about the possibilities with your other hand or your mouth! Pleasure aimed at her clitoris with your fingers or tongue will also help ease in the base of the hand, as her quickly rising arousal will definitely relax those vaginal muscles. Vibrators, like the multi-functioning 7362E Aphrodite Infrared Rechargeable Magic Wand, are another great way to intensity the pleasure while fisting.
Contrary to what it may seem, fisting is a team effort, rather than one person doing something to the other. Because of the sensitive nature of the vagina, a high level of communication and trust are essential for maximum fisting pleasure and success. The fister’s job is to work in the fist gently, while the fistee must relax those vaginal muscles so that the hand can ease its way in. When the PC muscles are consciously tightened and then released while slowly breathing out, upon release, the hand should naturally slide in further. Another way to assist the process of fisting (some hands are quite big, you know! *g*) is for the fistee to lie on her back and tilt her head up, because when the spine is stretched out, all those internal organs create more room inside by moving up.
Once all the way in, the vagina will probably contract a bit onto the fist which creates pressure. This will sometimes urge the fister to pull their hand out quickly, but resist this urge! Pulling out rapidly could be quite painful to your partner, and so best avoided. Besides, the easiest way is to let the fist be pushed out slowly while she’s cumming - which is an amazing sensation for everyone involved! *g* And how exactly does an inserted fist get her to cum? Let your hand compact and expand, which will give the sensation over and over of filling her up. No doubt she’ll like that… *giggles* As you watch her body succumb to the pleasure, slowly move in and out just a bit-it won’t take much, trust me. Watch her response. If she likes this, increase the pressure and intensify the motion a little. Switch between the two movements, expanding your hand and pushing in and out a bit and you’ll have her screaming with delight! *g*
