Sex toys can completely change the course of a sex scene and they can bring the excitement you need to enjoy your intimate life even better. You can use them in any type of sexual encounter and you can combine them in such a way that your sexual experience will become unique and even more exciting. But it is easier to choose the right sex toys if you are planning to get intimate with your usual partner because you know each other and you also know what to expect.
When you are involved in a long term relationship many things become predictable including the sex scenes that you can enjoy together. And while this might have its good sides, there’s always the chance of you wanting to experience something new that will spark your sex life a little, at least every now and then. For such situations you can always try out a hot threesome. Threesomes are very intense sexual encounters and they can improve the bond you have with your long term partner even more. But what type of toys should you bring to a threesome? The simply answer is that you should have many different toys because you never know what sexual preferences your guest has and even if you have an idea, you don’t really know where things will go.
Many threesomes might start like a vanilla scene, especially if one of the partners is shy at least for the first part of the sexual encounter. You should have the basic dildos, vibrators and nipple clamps to make sure that you have the classic sex scenes covered since these toys tend to be the most popular ones. But you should also have some orgasm belts, bondage tools and impact play tools as well. You never know when you will feel the need for some spanking and having a paddle or a whip can come very handy in such moments. It is important to talk to your lover beforehand and see what type of fetishes are you willing to experience during the threesome.
Also, if you are going to explore some BDSM fantasies, make sure that everyone knows who is the master or the mistress and who is the submissive partner. Usually for BDSM threesomes, there is one dominant partner and two slaves but it can also be a dominant couples enjoying the company of a submissive man or woman. As long as such roles are clearly established before the sex scene starts, you will find it easier to choose your sexual arsenal and even your outfits. Remember that your outfits should be in accordance with the rest of the sex scene in order for the stimulation to be complete and as exciting as all of you want. It also depends if your third partner is going to be a man or a woman. Because for guys, you might want to try out a prostate stimulator as they can generate a high amount of sexual pleasure. And if your guy is also a submissive one, such a sex toy almost becomes mandatory!
You should definitely try something new when you enjoy a threesome since you have the opportunity to develop your sexuality through such an experience. Keep an open mind and don’t limit yourself at discovering only safe and vanilla sexual practices. Release your limits and inhibitions and do your best to explore your sexuality and your partner’s sexuality as well as this can be an interesting way to grow together as a couple by making the most out of the sexual encounter that you are involved in. If you have curiosities about different fetishes such as medical play or different bondage fantasies, bring your specific toys and share your intentions with your other two partners.
A medical mouth gag and some rope will do it for a threesome with such sexual influences. They will most likely look forward to join you and discover new games with you as soon as you allow them to get involved in such fetishes. And even if you are not sure what kind of fetishes or fantasies you want to experience, as long as you keep an open mind you will see that ideas will come to you as things are happening and you will find new things about your sexual preferences and hidden desires. Sometimes, in front of a new situation such as a threesome, we are able to see ourselves from a different angle and that can only have a positive impact on our life and our long terms relationships. And there’s nothing hotter than to share a threesome with your lover as you also feel the excitement to encounter a new partner!
