When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I first realized that I was into bondage when I was 20 years old and my girlfriend (now wife) and I had gone into an adult store and we had seen some of the bondage items that they had sold and we talked about it and decided we wanted to try it.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
While my wife and I are equals outside the bedroom and make decisions together, I consider myself a Dominant inside the bedroom. I really enjoy being in charge (of course, so does she) while keeping her safe and loved during our scenes.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
I would say it's both physical and emotional for me. We've been married 20 years this December and it's still a major turn-on having my wife bound and gagged and seeing the desire and passion in her eyes as we make love.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
My wife is my only lover that i've ever told about my interest in bondage, so she has been VERY accepting of it and is always wanting to try new things.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
My first bondage experience was when my wife and I were still dating and we had bought a pair of handcuffs and used some duct tape to gag her, and over the years our love of bondage has really progressed.
What was your best bondage experience?
I think it's good to say that all my bondage experiences with my wife are the best!!
What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?
We're not too creative when it comes to safe words, we just use the word "Stop".
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?
I have a few favorites. I really like the Forever Locking Steel Rings Slave Cuffs because of how they lock the wrists over each other into place. I also like the Bondage Tape because of how easy it is use to secure my wife but also just as easy to take it back off again without ripping it off like a bandaid. Finally, I like the Microfoam Hypoallergenic Gag Tape because of how great it looks over my wife's mouth and the stickness keeps it in place over her mouth!
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
I would like to see my wife gagged and in a zentai body suit and secured with straps all around her then secured to our bed so she can't move.