After Sex Tips
Sex is one of the most intense aspects of a relationship, but it should never become a mechanical act. Unfortunately for many people, sex is almost like a sport. While this works just fine when you are involved in sexual affairs without emotional implications, things are different when you are sharing your bedroom with your loved one. Beside the physical pleasure and intense orgasms facilitated by your sexual encounters, there is also an intimate aspect that needs to be taken into consideration. And your intimate moments doesn’t end immediately after you reach orgasm. As a matter of fact, there are several things that you should consider doing together after a hot sex scene!
If you are in to BDSM practices and you like hardcore sexual experiences, you should make sure to enjoy a soft session of aftercare with your partner at the end of the sex scene. Especially if your sexual encounter involved spanking, using a flogger or trying extreme forms of bondage such as suspension bondage or breast bondage. An aftercare session is simply a period of time following your sexual encounter in which you are intimate with your lover in a soft way. Make sure to share your soft and deep feelings with your partner and remind them how much they mean to you. The point of having an aftercare session is to re-establish the emotional connection that might have been effected during your intense BDSM scene. And even if you are not into hardcore practices, it is still good to show your appreciation and love towards your sweetheart and remind them that your relationship is based on deeper emotions than those generated by your sexual experiences.
2. Talk about it
Having a profound conversation after sex might not be the first thing on your mind, especially if you had an intense orgasm… or more! But on the long run, it can definitely be constructive to share your personal perspectives on your sex life with each other. Talking with each other about the sexual experience that you shared will help you to improve it in a way that is beneficial for both of you. Be honest and let your partner know everything you liked as well as everything you didn’t like so that they will have an idea about your sexual preferences. Encourage them to do the same and try not to take any of their remarks personally. You can use such conversations as constructive criticism to improve your intimacy and many aspects of your relationship for the long run. However, make sure you don’t make it a very long discussion and keep it as intimate as possible.
3. Give your partner a massage
Sex can be energy consuming for both of you and it can also generate a mild discomfort if you are changing positions a lot. Your partner might feel exhausted after enjoying a complex sexual encounter with you. And nothing says ‘I love you’ like a good erotic massage after such an active sex scene. You can even use some oils to make the atmosphere more relaxing and help your partner feel a little spoiled by your magical hands. You can even complete the atmosphere with a romantic music and your favourite scented candles. This relaxing aromatherapy kind of treatment will make your lover feel cherished and appreciated beyond the sexual pleasure that occurs between the two of you. Such a massage session will not only relax your partner, but also yourself, and it will increase the intimacy between the two of you. If you are both into it, you might find that such a relaxing moment can quickly turn into a session of intense sexual stimulation for both of you!
After sex aspects are just as important as your sexual encounter and you shouldn’t neglect them if you want to have a happy and healthy relationship for years to come. While on your sexual affairs this might not be necessary, you want to make sure that your significant other feels very important in your life and not just another fling under the sheets.