There are many factors that might affect a woman’s sexual behaviour and some of them come with age while others come when they less expect it and apparently with no reason. But there is always a reason for a woman’s lack of interest in sex and this is not always something that they enjoy focusing on but it is a necessary aspect to figure out in order to have a happy and healthy intimate relationship. Sex is a big part of our lives and it can be essential for a couple but also for one’s personal physical and mental health. So, let’s see what are the main reasons why a woman might not feel so sexual like she used to.
1. Sex trauma
A sex trauma can have long-term effects and the first aspect that it is going to suffer will be the sexual behaviour. And sometimes, the effects of such a trauma are not noticeable fast enough to take the right action. It might take years to show some effects after a sexual abuse or a sexual violation of any kind. This will make the woman who had such a terrible experience feel less attracted to her own sexuality in the first place and other men as well. However, a good therapy routine with a specialist will help improve such a situation significantly. Also, talking with your constant partner and explaining them why you feel so distant might help you a lot, if you had such an experience and you are dealing with the consequences of it.
2. A boring sex life
A boring sex life always has its negative effects on a relationship. But the main aspect that will get affected will be the intimate connection. If a woman can find her sexual encounters with her lover very predictable and the thrill is not there, her interest might decrease in time and this will transform the relationship into an unhappy one on all the other aspects as well. But, luckily, this is somewhat of an easy fix. If you are not satisfied with the sex life that you have, you can always spice it up with some sex toys and accessories of your choice. Add some nipple clamps, a new bondage fetish, some electro-stimulating devices or maybe an orgasm belt and your partner will be more than happy to join in and experience new sexual fetishes with you! There are no limits to what you can do to add some excitement in the bedroom and ultimately, your lover will also come up with some kinky ideas.
3. Low self-esteem
A low self-esteem can affect a woman’s life in many ways and she will definitely not feel as attractive as she would like to feel if she suffers of such a condition. Low self-esteem doesn’t appear all of a sudden and can dramatically develop over time if the first signs are not identified. If you don’t appreciate and respect yourself and your body, others will not do it either and the only result to such an attitude is disappointment. If the low self-esteem is left unaddressed over time, it can lead to permanent damage and your sex life might never be recovered. However, if you or your partner notice such a problem, you can always take the right steps to fix it. As a woman take more care of yourself, offer yourself some beauty spoiling moments every now and then and cherish your body just as you want others to cherish it.
A low sexual interest is not always a personal thing and a couple should work as a team when such a problem appears. This is not something that can’t be fixed but if it is ignored, it can definitely destroy the relationship all together. While all couples go through tough times, a good communication and a good level of intimacy is the key to avoid such situations and maintain a happy and healthy relationship.
