Bed bondage. It can get you in the mood even before you’ve had your first cup of coffee, and just thinking about it can make you cum like never before! Your bed can become the ultimate bondage playground! All you need is a little imagination and these great bed bondage gear sets, including post saver sets to keep your bedposts from getting marred, mattress tie-downs for the corners and bondage connection hardware straps.
Best Bed Bondage Sets
If you have never experienced bondage play, it can be exciting and a little intimidating. We set out to find the best BDSM gear for beginners that will help you dip your toes into bondage with confidence. The first thing you’ll need to buy is restraints—especially if you want to try handcuffs or rope (which we recommend). Read on for our favorite pieces and some safe-bondage tips.
Create Your Own Lesson Plan
Looking for some kinky bondage games to teach your partner about safe words and give them an introduction to BDSM? Use these lesson plans as a starting point. Before you get going, there are two things you need to be mindful of when you’re teaching someone about BDSM: check-in with your partner often (don’t assume they can read your mind), and don’t ever push your partner into something they aren’t comfortable with.
Start Small – Build Up
If you’re not sure how much bondage gear you want, start with a small set and build up your collection over time. You can always add to your collection later. But if you jump in with both feet, you may find that one purchase isn’t enough for all of your new ideas! Start out small – have fun, then see what else you might need.
Experimentation is Key
Being open to trying new things is very important, but you don’t want to jump into full-on BDSM unless you know what you’re doing. Start with something like a blindfold and work your way up from there; if you have some reservations, try reading up on it so that when (and if) you decide to move forward, you can do so in an informed manner. When it comes to BDSM, sometimes people get hurt, physically or emotionally—the key is communication and understanding ahead of time so that everyone involved can make decisions that are both safe and fun. If you or your partner aren’t totally comfortable with it at first, no big deal: just keep trying new things until something clicks.
