Best Ways to Be a More Confident Flirt

Wouldn’t it be great if it’s always sunny? Wouldn’t it be splendid if we could eat whatever we want without gaining weight? Sadly, life doesn’t work that way and still…life is beautiful even if it’s not perfect, so are we.

Flirting is an art of attracting another individual in the most provocative way possible. So how can you entice a person to liking you if you are not feeling good about yourself?

It can be difficult to gain a bit of self-confidence but tell you what, you don’t need much to be a good flirt. You always need to remember how unique and special you are; everyone is exceptional in his or her own way. You need to be able to at least look people in the eyes because that is the most basic thing when it comes to flirting and creating connections.

You can do several things to call to someone’s attention. If your physical attractiveness is not that high, but you have a very good sense of humor, then exploit that instead. You can do anything, share funny gags and jokes you have learned over the years. Or you can say racy ‘jokes’ like, “Knock, knock. Who’s there? I can give you a blowjob, just ask me.” It can be a fantastic opportunity to be very flirty under the premise of a joke. You don’t need to be a comedian to lighten up the mood with some jokes. Exhibiting your good sense of humor around people can really make you more confident because it makes you less anxious. If you are feeling nervous, hey, shoot a humorous story to release some tension.

As for increasing your confidence, you can do some things in that particular section. Put on an outfit that suits your taste, something you are comfortable with. I don’t mean you should dress perfectly from head to toe if it’s not your thing, just make sure to dress suitably to make you feel your best. When you love what you are wearing, you are putting the best version of yourself out there. This will do wonders on your confidence.

Another thing that can help reassure you a little bit is to have body contact. If the person you are flirting with makes you laugh, go ahead and touch their forearm or their shoulder. If you’re like to say something, don’t be afraid to nudge their shoulder as well. These gestures will initiate your physical connection.

If you have some trouble with your confidence, there is one thing you shouldn’t do while flirting, the old ignoring game. For some people, it works, however, for those with confidence issues, that thing can be pretty nerve wrecking and can cause more anxiety. Don’t be afraid to reach out to them, text them, email and pay attention; make known that you care about someone.

One last thing, if you still feel overwhelmed with the person you are talking to, remember they are also not perfect. If you think this someone is too attractive or too perfect, or too whatever, it helps to keep in mind they also have their flaws and own doubts too. You just have to enjoy the moment of getting to know each other, just be yourself. In the end, we are all socially -oriented beings, draw attraction and let desire pave its way.