How to Get Your Lover into Bondage

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All ‘Bout Hoods!

Hoods are a necessity if you’re looking to engage in sensory play. They are also a necessity if you just plain like them and want to play in them wink*.

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Approaching a New Partner

When you are looking for a new partner in a BDSM relationship, it can work differently than the average couple getting together.

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A Powerful Mind - Understanding What Makes A Domnatrix

Like I’ve said before, a dominatrix is not born, it is made. Becoming a good dominatrix will most likely take some time and preparation, but with some preparation you can definitely get there.

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A Recipe for Sexiness - Spicing Up Your Sex Life with Bondage Play!

Sometimes you may feel you want to explore new things with your partner in bed. It may be you something you have always wanted to try with them or just something you may have never heard of.

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A Safety First Guide to BDSM Sensory Play

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.

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Autumn’s Bondage 101 - The Breakdown of Different Gag Types

In a world of ball gags and bite gags and their infinite varieties, it can be very easy to get lost in them. And hey, I’m not saying that is bad thing, but sometimes you need to broaden your horizons and step out of your comfort zone.

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Autumn’s Bondage Ideas - Vol. 1 - Light Sensation Play & Roleplay

There are plenty of things you can do with bondage, am I right? Especially if you have a willing partner who also loves to participate… wink*.

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BDSM in Public: Take the Kink on a Date

Those into BDSM often want to go out together, but they feel they can’t continue the role playing experience in public. That is not true. It is possible to take your dom/sub relationship out into the real world.

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Better Honeymoon Sex Tips - Don’t Just Say ‘Yes’, SCREAM It!

The time has finally arrived; you and the love of your life decided to make it official and got hitched. Now, I know planning a wedding tends to be quite stressful, no matter how small or intimate event you choose to have.

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Creative Control - Crafting Your Dominatrix Persona

Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just ok it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.

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Desperately Seeking Dom - Finding the Right Master for You

Finding a partner is always a challenge. I mean is there something harder that finding someone that matches and complements us? Our personalities, tastes, distastes, interests, etc.?

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Don’t Be Afraid to Celebrate Your Sensuality

Celebrating your sexuality means getting to know and explore yourself in an intimate process, and not feeling ashamed for what you are and what you desire.

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Dress Up To Mess Around - Making Role Play Work For You!

Do you know how easily you can fall into a sort of sex routine? We humans are creatures of habit, and sex is definitely a part of that. Before you know it, you and your partner can be doing the same thing every single time.

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Establishing the Basics

I know I’ve probably mentioned this about one hundred times, but BDSM can come in any way you like. BDSM related activities can be as kinky or as vanilla as you like.

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Facts About BDSM That Fifty Shades of Grey Left Out

Fifty Shades of Grey caught everyone’s attention upon its publication a few years ago, and it seemed to remain in the spotlight for quite some time.

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Five Beginner Kinky Items to Spice Up Lesbians’ Sex Lives

Us Lesbians can be a bit old-fashioned. I’ve encountered a lot of us who have never tried toys, or maybe did but simply don’t like them.

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Get Caught Up In You - Bondage Wrap Play for Beginners

Bondage or vet wrap is a piece of stretchy and flexible fabric commonly used on bondage scenarios and bondage play. It was first used in the real life world by veterinarians, but it has evolved into being used for some more.

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Getting The Bondage Basics Down - Beginner Items For BDSM Bondage Play

Getting into bondage can be intimidating, especially if you’ve never really experimented with sex. Don’t worry – it can actually be really rewarding and exhilarating. Especially with the right toys.

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“Hi Love, Do You Want to Try Bondage?” - Asking the Question in Your Relationship

Having a new partner it’s always exciting and a bit nerve wracking as well. You don’t know what they enjoy in bed or what turns them on and they don’t know those things about you either.

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Home Alone & Horny - Arm & Leg Self Bondage

Tying your arms and legs it’s one of the most common ideas when someone wants to try self bondage. And it’s easy to see why; most of us are rendered useless when we can’t use our arms and legs, obviously.

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How To Be A Good Dominant For Your Partner, Part 1

What makes a good dominant? The answer may vary from person to person. But there are some aspects that are universal. These are some characteristics submissives appreciate; a relationship can benefit highly from practicing some of these qualities.

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How To Overload Their Senses & Blow Their Mind During Sex!

No matter how long we have been having sex or how many times we have done it, there are always new tricks and ideas to learn, don’t you agree? Wink*.

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How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The Red Room

Bedrooms serve multiple purposes such as: relaxation, intimacy, fantasies, sexual experiences, resting, but all of them have one thing in common-comfort.

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If the Cuff Fits: Topping from the Bottom

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

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Inside the Cage - Things to Know Before Your First Time With Male Chastity

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

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Introducing BDSM to your Lover

Once you have gotten a little taste of the BDSM plate, it's easy to understand if you want to play a bit more and introduce it to your partner in order for more sexy times to come.

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Learn to Love the Rope Self Bondage Rope Basics

If you are curious about self bondage but don’t know where to start, this is for you (I’m a mind reader). Keep in mind safety it’s first and should always have a pair of scissors or a knife near you to get out.

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Learning The Ropes - BDSM Rope Bondage For Beginners

Rope bondage is a common practice in the BDSM community, however knowing how to use your rope and to work with it demands a lot of work and dedication, so to speak.

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Let’s Talk Pegging & Your Relationship - Together!

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject.

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Make Sex Even Better With New Sensations for the Senses!

Senses are the primary thing we use in our everyday life. They are basically what we need to survive and move into the world; our window to the world.

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Mate Into Bondage

Wow - this is a question I get a lot! There are a few things you need to know when you finally muster the courage and decide to tell your significant other that: 1) You enjoy aspects of bondage and/or S/M. 2) You'd like them to play along.

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Mistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman

Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone.

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New Tingles & Touches: Getting it on with Sex Toys

Every day we say our prayers thanking the god of sex toys out there. They are not only a great addition to any couples sex life; they are also great to be used on their own… solo style.

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New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world.

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Pushing His Buttons - Male BDSM Turn-ons

Turning on your partner is a must have to experience a great sexual experience. And we all like to learn some new tricks every now and then, right? It is only natural to be on the look-out for new techniques to try in the bedroom.

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Quick Bondage Wrap Ideas For Beginners!

Bondage wrap is a great way to practice some light bondage and have fun. It’s really easy to put it on and really easy to get it off, so it’s perfect for short scenes.

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 1

Role play can be a great addition to any sex life. Or even a cool way to spice things up on a date or just a regular sex night (or morning? Wink).

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 2

Role play can be a great way to have some fun and practice your creativity skills. Even if you haven’t practiced it before, it can be a great way to connect with your partner in a different way.

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Sharing your BDSM Fantasies

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.

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Shock to the System: Bringing Sensory Play into Your Lives

Sensory play it’s a good way to spice up your sex life and try something different. There are several ways you can bring it to your life, depending on what you like exactly and how intense do you want it to be.

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Stir Up the Senses: Sensory Play for You & Your Partner!

If you’re looking to stimulate your partner’s (or yours!) senses, you’ve come to the right place, my love. There are plenty of different toys and instruments you can use to get those so looked after reactions in your body.

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Tempting Transformation - Creating a Dominatrix Persona

Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.

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The Flavors of Sexual Desire

I can clearly recall the night I had my first orgasm. At that time, my parents had just upgraded the cable, and our free trial of Cinemax, or Skinemax as my brother joked, was still on going.

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The Passion Puzzle: Keeping Your Sexual Relationship Interesting

It’s proven: that mad lust and desire you feel for your partner will most likely fade in 18 months. But that doesn’t mean you will stop having sex.

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The submissive Role in BDSM

I think we can all agree every relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM, can benefit from some negotiation. Negotiation is nothing more than having a discussion about the practices and expectations about the relationship.

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The Submissive’s Mantras

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be.

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Tied Together: Bringing Bondage Into Your Relationship!

Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception.

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Toucha-Toucha-Touch Me! Improving Sex Together with Intimacy

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having? There are plenty of ways, and it may surprise you how easy it is.

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Trying out BDSM for the very first time?

So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.

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Two to Tango - What Sex Toys Will Work for Us?

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

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Viva Variety! Bondage as the All-Spice of Your Sex Life!

“New Year, New Life”, right? At least, that’s what everyone says. And as I’m sure most of you try to do a couple of resolutions or things to change/try on this New Year, your sex life shouldn’t be an exception.

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What is submission? 

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel?

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Worktime IS Playtime! Having Fun With Your BDSM Slave

Having a slave is one of the most fun things in the world. And having fun with them while they are in bondage is even more fun wink*. Some people ask themselves, “but what exactly are we going to do?”..

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