Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I’m a director; in charge of over 800 employees, having to make every key decision. Stressful. Married to wonderful, sexy wife and key holder. Enjoy good food, wine and company. Love music and accomplished drummer.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
Probably in my late teens. I was drawn to it through seeing some magazines and since I’ve always been interested in weird and different things, it caught me.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
While my wife will release me to dominate and roughly take her when she commands, I am in 24/7 chastity and I’m her submissive husband serving all her desires and commands.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
It is truly both. Emotionally it releases my stress and allows me to give up the control I have during my work day. The physical part is the release of endorphins, which is pleasurable.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
Yes, overall. My wife KH is not into the severe punishment and elaborate bondage that I sometimes crave, she but can be very evil and cruel and deliver when she wants to.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
It was with a girlfriend in my early 20s who wanted to be tied up and taken hard. I tied her spread eagle and tormented her without allowing her to cum until I penetrated her.
What was your best bondage experience?
A sensory deprivation session with Ms. Leda (Arena Blaze-NYC) where she used sounds on me and edged me for what seemed like forever. When she allowed me release, it was then force fed to me.
What is the most creative safeword you have ever used?
Never creative, keep it simple with Mercy
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
That both partners are on the same page and they are non-judgmental going into it. Any fantasy should be respected and discussed.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
To learn as much as they can, be honest with themselves and their partners, be safe and have fun. It’s ok to be scared sometimes, as that’s part of the thrill, but safety first!
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item fromsub-shop.com and why?
So many faves....open mouth gag, cum thru urethral plug, arm binder restraints, chastity cage...
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
To serve multiple mistresses at one time
What’s your favorite knock-knock joke?
I have none, lol.