New Year’s just around the corner and like other lovers, maybe you’re planning to revamp your relationship and make it better. Perhaps, add a bit more of rough moves, make dark fantasies come true, or include a sex toy to make the holiday vibes last! If this is what’s on your mind but you’re not sure how and where to start, don’t worry, #wegotyou!
We’ve made a list of kinky New Year resolutions that will not only increase libido but will also make your relationship healthier and happier.
1. Include Role Play In The Bedroom
Doesn’t matter if you’re a natural-born actor or not, putting a bit of drama into the bedroom will instantly add thrill in your otherwise boring sex life. Besides a lubricator and a whip, role-playing is a powerful weapon you can use to have more fun. Imagine your boyfriend in a cop uniform, punishing you for being so bad! Or you in sexy nurse attire but instead of a first aid kit, you’re holding a BDSM starter kit in hand. Wink wink!
2. Change Roles
If you’re always the Master/Mistress, why not switch to a slave even just for a night. We know, this is such as big switch but trust us, it’s going to be fun and exciting! Rather than holding a paddle, why not let your partner put a cuff and blindfold you, arouse you until you’re almost out of breath. Or, it can be as simple as initiating sex if your partner’s always the first to do it. The change can be really simple and you don’t have to beat yourself thinking about it… unless you like being beaten of course.
3. Share Your Craziest, Darkest Fantasy
C’mon, we all have this but the problem probably is telling your partner about it. Maybe you’re too shy to tell it but you’ll never know if he/she wants it too unless you spill it out. While having sex, slowly share your darkest fantasy. May it be using a sex toy on him, doing a very naughty sex position, or wearing a hot piece of a catsuit. Who knows, you may end up doing all your fantasies in that instance.
4. Do Something Uncomfortable
It’s important for you and your partner to feel comfortable during sex but once in a while, it’s a good idea to step out of your comfort zone. If talking dirty makes you cringe, then maybe it’s time to conquer that fear. Here are some quick tips on how to talk dirty when you’re too shy:
- Start with flirty, suggestive phrases like “I want you so bad!”
- Just tell them directly what you feel and if you can’t blurt it out, just whisper it in his/her ears
- Describe what you’re going to do like “I can’t wait to unzip your pants”
If you don’t really feel like talking, might just put a ball gag in your mouth as this might still turn him on even better.
5. Invest In A Single Prop
Or more… it’s up to you! It can be as simple as a prostate stimulator or a fantasy swing – whatever it is, be sure to add a new bondage gear to your bedroom. This is one surefire way to increase the action between you and your partner.
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