Long Distance BDSM Relationship

A long distance BDSM relationship might seem impossible for some of you but it is not like that at all! Actually, there are many couples that are forced to live their relationship with more than just a few miles in between them. If your partner is out of town for work or family matters, that doesn’t mean that you have to put your sexual life on hold, not at all! You can, however, enter a new field of sexuality that can be very diverse and exciting if you know how to manage it for both your advantage and your partner’s pleasure as well. Yes, it is a team work but so are the benefits. So, let’s see how you can still explore your sexuality and develop your intimate relationship while your partner is not physically with you!

1. Have cybersex or phone sex

When distance starts to be an important factor in your relationship, technology is your biggest ally! Luckily for us, we live in a world in which internet, webcams, phones and smartphones are great means for keeping in touch with your partner and even more than that. You can engage in intense BDSM scenes while you have a session of cybersex or even over the phone if you are good with descriptions. If you are using a webcam you can tie yourself in a form of bondage that you know your partner will appreciate or tell them what to do to satisfy you, depending on who is the dominant and who is the submissive partner in your relationship. There are many BDSM scenes that you can perform while your partner is watching you and touching themselves. Dirty talk is a great advantage and if you are into verbal humiliation even better.

2. Use your sex toys

Sex toys are a must when you want to reach an intense level of sexual satisfaction without having your partner around to engage in some hot sexual intercourse. Your dildo, vibrator, orgasm belt and even nipple clips will be your best friends during this time! You can indulge in an intense session of masturbation and reach several orgasms by using your sex toys and accessories. And if your partner can’t join you online or over the phone, feel free to record yourself or take pictures and send them to your lover so that they will see how busy you were pleasing your sexy body! Use your imagination to keep in contact with your loved one and share as much of your personal sex fantasies and desires with them. A good communication can save a relationship out of a long distance phase.

3. Send kinky e-mails regularly

Kinky e-mails are a great way to stimulate your partner! Be as descriptive as you can and don’t hold back the dirty words that can make the difference between a regular e-mail and a sexy one. Imagine your partner reading the e-mail and describe how your body feels and what would you like them to do to you in order to reach an intense climax. Also, make sure you don’t leave out all the kinky things that you would do to them to stimulate their body and have them enjoy one orgasm after another! Chances are that after such an intense e-mail you will receive an even more intense response and you two will be able to overcome the distance so much easier!

As common as long-distance relationships are nowadays, it is hard to believe that you will not find these tips useful at least every now and then when you go through such a phase. However, as a general rule, try to keep it real and accurate because your words are your best sex toys in such a case and your partner needs to feel you closed while they hear you or read your e-mails. Release your inhibitions and you can even mention future sexual plans that you want to perform with them to give a sense of perspective to the entire experience!