What It Means to be a Swinger

Swinging is a sexual practice that became very popular among couples due to its multiple benefits that it can bring to a relationship. Basically, being a swinger means trading your sexual partner with the sexual partner of someone else. This way you have sex with another person’s spouse while they are having sex with your spouse. While this is adding a wide variety to a relationship, it also adds a high level of excitement generated by the new sexual experience that both of you will get to indulge in and enjoy. Some people look at it as an accepted form of cheating which it probably is considering that you do have sex with someone else but your lover will not only be aware of it but they will be present in the same room, doing the very same thing. But let’s look at some benefits of being a swinger and how exactly can you and your partner benefit out of such an experience and fetish.

1. You will have no reason to cheat on your partner

Cheating can be hot but if there is a better alternative to it, why not giving it a try? By enjoying a swinging session, you can have an intense sexual encounter with a new partner and you can satisfy your need for variety without damaging your intimate relationship or cheating on your lover. And such an experience can actually help your relationship reach a new level of mutual trust and a stronger connection between you and you lover. Even if you share your sexual encounter with someone else, the fact that you are able to enjoy that will always be a common experience between you and your constant lover that you can look back at.

2. You can try new sexual fetishes and experiences

We all have sexual fetishes and fantasies that we would like to try out, but we are not always so brave to share them with our lover. The reasons for such inhibitions are many. We might be afraid they are not on the same page with us or that experiencing such naughty fetishes will damage our intimate relationship. But with a different partner, there is a whole new level of sexual freedom to enjoy. If you are into bondage scenes, you can try them with another swinger before talking your lover into it. Also, if you are into anal play or electro stimulating devices, have such experiences with new partners while your lover is watching and maybe getting interested in the same fetishes as well. You can sexually stimulate your nipples too by wearing a pair of nipple clamps to spice things even more during a swinging session.

3. You will be turned on by being watched

You might have a voyeurism fetish and what best viewer than your lover? They will watch you have an intense sexual encounter with your swinging partner while you can watch them do the same. This can increase the sexual excitement and help you have an even better orgasm, or more of them. Chances are the simple fact of being watched by your lover will be enough sexual stimulation for you. And you can learn new tips and tricks for each other. After such an experience, you will have much more intense sexual encounters and discover new aspects of your sexuality which can only benefit your intimate relationship on the long run,
If you are able to drop your inhibitions and keep an open mind, a swinging session can be just the right experience for both you and your partner. You will enjoy it and grow through it but you will also improve your sex life significantly. Talk with your partner before diving into such an experience and see what they think about it. If you know how to present them the advantages, there should be no problem getting them interesting in swinging just as much as you are.