How to Give the Perfect Hand Job

Giving your guy a hand job can be great foreplay. Yet on its own, it can be an erotic act to lead him to an intense orgasm provided you know what you are doing and experienced at it. But even if you don’t feel so confident, you can use your hands to get him pretty excited. Just follow his reactions to every move you make. If you are a beginner at this, here are some tips and tricks to help you increase the pleasure of a hand job experience. He will not only fall in love with you but he will cherish your hands a lot more once you get good at this type of “job”. So, learn some secrets to drive him crazy!

1. Let him relax

Before you start with the “goodies”, you should let your man relax and let go of all his struggles and stress. If he is tense, even the best hand job technique will likely fail because he is not able to enjoy them like he should. To help him relax you might want to give him an erotic massage. It would also be good to create the right, romantic atmosphere before you get down to business. Your lover will appreciate every moment of it and he will look forward to what is still to come. If you make sure your lover is relaxed and disconnected from his daily worries, then he will be more open to your erotic set up. Use certain oils to improve his mood. Early on seduce him with aromatherapy beforehand. Once he is relaxed, you have a better chance of making him reach an orgasm even if your hand job skills are not so developed yet.

2. Add some variety

One of the most important things to consider when you want to give a great hand job is to not repeat the same move. Variety is a great technique when you want him to reach an orgasm! Try to adapt your moves, pressure and speed to his reactions at different moments. It is best not to get stuck on the same rhythm for too long. If you make this mistake, then your man might lose interest. Thus, you will not obtain the outcome you are aiming for. You can also try to use both hands at the same time or alternate them. Doing so could give him a fresh sensation and perhaps, increase his sexual stimulation. Playing with his balls might also be a good idea because they tend to be very sensitive as well. You will be amazed to see how he reacts when you do. Indeed, sometimes, you don’t need a sex toy or any other accessory and not even intercourse to pleasure and make him cum. Then again, it would not hurt to have him wear a butt plug or a prostate stimulator to increase his desire and excitement.

3. Experiment

Each man is different. So, it means the same strategies might not suit every man. You will most likely have to experiment with different techniques until you discover what sends your particular man over the edge. You can also ask him what feels good and what moves he finds are the most exciting for him. Guys give themselves a hand job on a regular basis as a part of their masturbation. So he should be able to tell you exactly what turns him on. But if you want to discover this on your own then feel free to mix your hand job session with a preferred type of bondage. You can tie him down so you have full access to his intimate parts and even have him wear a gag to make him feel he is under your complete control.

When it comes to giving the perfect hand job, keep in mind your attitude is just as important as your hand movements. Try not to get anxious. The simple fact you are willing to please your man by doing this is already a big turn on for him even if you are not yet an expert at it. So, go ahead and get the lube then let your imagination and hands do the job!