Anal Sex 101: How to Prepare for Anal Play

Anal play doesn’t come natural for most women and it takes some training to be able to enjoy it. But you might want to try it so badly that you are willing to put in the work and we are here to help you! Your partner will be more than thankful to see you being so open to try new things and this can be the beginning of a new sexual era for both of you. So, there are some tips and hints that will help you enjoy anal play a lot better and get ready for such an intense sexual encounter! Let’s look at some secrets and set you up for an incredibly adventure!

1. Get used to exploring your anal area

Yes, going from no experience to having a hard penis in there might not be such an easy transition. But, you can take it more gradually. Start by exploring your anal area with your finger and move on to smaller butt plugs, and dildos. In time you will be ready to increase the size of the toys and therefor be ready for your partner’s penis or a dildo that is of similar size with it.

2. Lubricate!

Don’t even try to play the hero and have your first anal sex experience without a lubricant. All you will obtain will be a lot of pain and no pleasure which will push you even farther away from being able to enjoy anal sex. Use a lube even if you are planning to play with your dildo or have anal sex with your partner. A lube will make it easier and more pleasant, not to mention that you might actually enjoy it from the beginning since it will go a lot smoother than the raw version of anal sex.

3. Have a session of foreplay

Foreplay is a good idea for many BDSM scenes or any other type of sexual encounter. However, when it comes to anal sex, a good foreplay is even more important for a successful sexual encounter. If you are excited, you will not be so focused on the pain and you will enjoy the pleasure of having anal sex a lot more which will be the best for both you and your partner. A little pain during anal sex can be hot, but if it is all pain, there will be nothing exciting about it.

4. Take it slow

This is essential when it comes to a first time anal sexual encounter. There is no need to rush it. Take your time during intercourse and tell your partner to pace themselves as well. Is important to get comfortable with every step of the process so make sure you do it when and as much as you are ready! Don’t push yourself and don’t add too much hardcore to the sexual encounter from the first time because it will be rather traumatic than pleasant. You need to be relaxed during anal sex so that your lover can penetrate you. Little by little, you will be ready to enjoy the whole experience!

5. Use the right positions

Now, there is no need to get creative first time you try out anal sex, is it? You will have plenty of time for kinky ideas when you get comfortable enough with it. As a beginner, keep the positions that seem to be more natural for such a performance and that creates the right amount of comfort for you. A spooning position is very popular among beginners but you can also sit on your partner’s lap. A position that gives you control is preferable when you don’t know how to perform such a sexual practice to its fullest potential. Drop your inhibitions and share your feelings with your partner during the sexual encounter. If you do that, they will be able to adapt to your needs and support you in the process so that you can enjoy anal sex even more. You will get to love this sexual practice over time!