Tantric sex is something you have probably heard about before. But you are probably a bit intimidated to try it. I don’t blame you, it does sound quite scary. But in reality, it is not as scary as it sounds. Tantric sex is a great way to try something new with your partner. Indeed, going beyond what you think are your limits can definitely be something extremely rewarding. As they say, it is all about practice *wink*
Tantric sex has to do more with your own energy and aura than being a sexual act itself. As you may know, sexual energy is part of who we are as human beings. Tantric practices aim to accept our human nature and sexual desires as well. It is a way to enlighten your mind and achieve a higher level of understanding through your body. So, it is something more spiritual than physical. These practices will allow you to be ‘complete’ and achieve nirvana. According to these beliefs, you won’t have to look or deny carnal passion because it will simply be there
Tantric practices also focus more on sexuality and the belief it is sacred. For this reason, you will find a branch of tantric practices leaning heavily on this path. The sacred experience is beneficial both inside the bedroom and outside in their daily life. For sure, having such intense shared experiences with each other and spending so much needed time together will help strengthen the bond between two people. Whatever you choose, keep in mind tantric sex is not a shortcut to ‘better sex.’ Rather it is a means to channel your energy in a spiritual way. The orgasmic energy enlightens you and leads you to enter a higher level of spiritual understanding.
So, how can tantric practices help you? Well, they could transform your mind and spirit. Hence, this is a great way to find some harmony and balance within you instead of simply expecting or demanding it from your partner. If you constantly rely on someone else and they don’t fulfill what you believe they should do, then it could lead to a lot of problems in the relationship such as resentment and negative feelings. So, this could be healthy for couples as it emphasizes happiness coming from within and not from anybody else. One could say tantric practices will help lead you in this direction.
If both partners are willing to give these practices a go, it could be a great way to expand your mind and improve your relationship. Both of you need to approach this with an open mind. Your senses and heart should be awake and open as well.
If you are really interested in this, you could take a tantra workshop or find a tantric coach. You can find plenty of tantric guides all over the world. Its popularity has increased in the last few years, so finding workshops or guides shouldn’t be too hard *wink* It could help you learn more about the practice and lead you in the right direction to achieve your goals.