Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
I am a 26-year-old Research scientist up at the university here in SLC. I am a pretty sociable guy and love hanging out with friends, reading, cooking, video games, and learning about cultures and mythologies. I am also a self-proclaimed movie critic! :)
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
Well, mine is kind of an evolving story. Ever since I was little I have always been pulled to age regression and the diaper/ABDL scene. Which is to say my fascination with bondage started there and now I have been able to explore more into the kink lifestyle. Especially in regards to the Dom/Sub sphere which is very important in the diaper scene.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
As stated above, I am pretty immersed into the ABDL/Diaper scene. With that in mind, I would consider myself a pretty big sub, or in our world, baby boy. :) I like having my control taken away, and enjoy having someone else making and deciding on choices for me.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional?
Very much emotional. I live a very high stress highly active lifestyle, and the power of BDSM is the ability to let go; to remove yourself from one headspace and displace it into another. I think its one of the best coping mechanisms out there, yet so few have discovered it, and even more have labeled it as "weird."
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
It is a little bit of both. I enjoy living it as much as I can, but for the most part it is a diversion from the struggle of adult life and the stress and pressures we so commonly find there. It’s an escape. A chance to be someone else! :)
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
I am actually going through a pretty nasty divorce.... so no not really, haha.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
I am fairly new into the bondage scene so I have yet to have one! Any takers??
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
Doing it with someone who cares about you. This day and age there is so much casual hook ups that the power behind the experience is lost. Now I am not saying there is anything wrong with casual hook ups, but in my experience I feel much better if I am connected with someone when I "play."
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
Take your time, explore, and be friendly. Not everyone will share your same interests....believe me....and that’s okay. Diversity is what makes our scene so beautiful.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?
I love my chastity devices! Especially the CB series :) Giving that sense of control to someone else is wildly fun to me.
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
I have a thing for police officers. So really any situation where I need to get arrested by an officer of the law is alright with me :)
What is Eskimo ice?
Ummmmm… ice that eskimos live on? haha