Sexual bondage is one of the basic sexual practices among BDSM enthusiasts and there are so many styles of bondage that it can be quite challenging to find the one that most satisfies you and your partner. But once you moved past the beginner level, you will most likely get more creative and use your imagination more productively, to discover the most intense forms of bondage and incorporate them into just as intense BDSM scenes. Here are a few forms of extreme bondage that you can use and combine with other sexual activities in order to enjoy your intimate scenes to their fullest potential.
1. Body harnesses
Body harnesses come in a wide variety and they are very exciting as long as they are used in the right BDSM scene. You can make your slave wear a beautiful body harness while you stimulate their nipples or genitalia with different toys such as dildos, butt plugs or nipple clamps and enjoy their lack of control over their own body. You can make your submissive wear head harnesses or body harnesses or even armbinders according to the sexual theme that you are
planning to perform and enjoy every instant of it. Seeing your slave in the right body harness will also generate a strong visual stimulation for you and make you be even more attracted to them so don’t hesitate when it comes to adding one of these accessories to your sexual arsenal.
2. Swings
Swings are great forms of bondage that will prepare both you and your partner for an intense session of suspension bondage, which is the ultimate level of bondage when it comes to BDSM scenes. But also, swinging is a sexual scene on itself due to the increased sexual pleasure that both partners experience during sexual intercourse while one of them is trapped in a swinging bondage system. It creates the feeling of freedom but also the feeling of ultimate sexual penetration and to understand best what swinging is all about you should give it a try and see for yourself. Most likely your sexual life will never be the same once you try such an intense experience!
3. Suspension bondage
Suspension bondage is considered to be one of the most extreme and intense forms of bondage. It takes some experience to be able to practice such a sexual activity. The dominant is the one who has to take responsibility for the effects of a suspension bondage session because they have to tie the rope correctly without harming their slave and making it hard for them to breathe or creating some circulation problems, which can easily happen if a beginner dives into such a practice. In such a BDSM scene, the submissive partner relies a hundred percent on their dominant partner and it requires a high level of trust between the two as well as a high level of mutual understanding and care. With the proper steps followed, such a bondage activity can’t be anything else but a very intense and exciting one so, if you feel ready for it, give it a try!
Once you choose the form of bondage that you are planning to experience, is important to have a negotiation session with your partner before the BDSM scene starts that way you both know where each other stands and how to satisfy your sexual needs. It is important to apply the main rule of BDSM practices, “safe, sane and consensual” and not take any risks that are not necessary because being safe is a primordial condition in such sexual encounters. Make sure to have a safe word established beforehand, that way both of you but especially your slave can use when things can out of control and they feel like the pain and discomfort is higher than the level of sexual pleasure. Once the safe word is used, the intensity of the sexual activity or bondage activity should be decreased or the course of events should be changed to a point that is mutually enjoyable and exciting.
