Please tell us a little bit about yourself – How would you describe your everyday vanilla life?
In my vanilla life I run a department of engineers and travel the US & Europe providing support to our many customers.
When did you first realize you were into bondage?
I first noticed a liking for BDSM and Bondage when I was just a child, Nancy Sinatra's song "These Boots Were Made For Walking" was always my favorite. When I turned 17 I knew where my likes and dislikes were.
How you best describe yourself and why? Your choices are: Dominant, Submissive, Switch or Fuzzy Rainbow Unicorn.
Submissive, as strong dominant women have always been a turn on for me.
Do you feel that your desire for bondage is more physical or emotional? (please elaborate)
It is both as being in bondage is physical but my reactions are emotional with me having no control as being the key to my fetish.
What does BDSM mean to you: is it a lifestyle, a diversion, or something else?
I want it with my Mistress but for now it is our outside of normal work hours escape.
Were lovers accepting of your interest in bondage?
Not all in fact I would say only my current wife/mistress is the one that is accepting.
Please briefly describe your first bondage experience.
First was with a Domme in Amsterdam she was birthday present for me and basically restrained me on a bed and then for an hour used her body on me for her pleasure.
What was your best bondage experience?
With my current Mistress we designed and built a house with its on "Fun Room" dungeon and I make all sorts of equipment for use in the room including a table with restraints. When my Mistress uses this and also hoods and blindfolds me to inflict whatever torture or pleasure she wants, that is my best experience.
Peanut Butter is the only one we have.
What do you feel is most important about the experience of bondage?
That my Mistress is comfortable with her control and I am complete free to submit.
What is the best advice you would give to someone just starting out with BDSM?
That's easy: try it, begin slowly and just see what turns you on. You don't have to embrace all aspects of BDSM just see what fits you.
What is your favorite gear, toy or lingerie item from sub-shop.com and why?
We have a leather hood that is very form fitting and that has a blindfold and an open mouth, we have had for years now and it is still my favorite.
What is the one sensual fantasy you haven’t lived out yet that you are excited to try?
3 Dommes and me.
What is Eskimo ice?
Not familiar with that term