10 Traits of a Natural Submissive
I talk a lot about the BDSM lifestyle. I also share quite often my personal preference for being a submissive and how I enjoy bondage and discipline and other forms of role play. These are my own sexual choices.READ MORE
A Forcibly Closed Flower: Female Chastity for Beginners
Chastity is not a new idea. Believe it or not, over the years history has proven it existed even a very long time ago. Now, its antique uses continue to be a bit of a mystery, compared to our modern times, wink*.READ MORE
BDSM Boundaries Near & Far - Setting Rules For Your Long Distance Relationship
No long distance relationship is the same. Well, not any relationship is just like another as well…but you know what I mean wink*.READ MORE
BDSM’s Best Friend: Puppy Play FAQ
As I’m definitely sure you are interested in puppy play, I’m equally sure you must have some questions. It’s ok, we all get them wink*.READ MORE
Breast Bondage 101: What You Need to Know!
Breast bondage is commonly used as a method or as a part of the submission training and process. As you may be aware, the breasts provide a very nice visual wink*.READ MORE
C’mon, Try Breast Bondage Already!
Breasts are a very sensitive and erogenous area for plenty of women out there. Most women love to be stimulated there because it’s highly satisfactory…and most men love the play with them because they love how they look and feel!READ MORE
Commandments for a BDSM Kitten Girl Owner
When you are calling them, refer to them as princess. They are royalty after all.Once in a while, instead of milk for their bowl, get them some chocolate milk. For a treat, fill the bowl with champagne.READ MORE
Desperately Seeking Dom - Finding the Right Master for You
Finding a partner is always a challenge. I mean is there something harder that finding someone that matches and complements us? Our personalities, tastes, distastes, interests, etc.?READ MORE
Don’t Be Afraid to Celebrate Your Sensuality
Celebrating your sexuality means getting to know and explore yourself in an intimate process, and not feeling ashamed for what you are and what you desire. What is your fantasy? What form of pleasure do you prefer to experience?READ MORE
I guess the word humiliation has some pretty negative ideas that go along with it, right? Even when I tie the word "erotic" to it, it still seems to carry some of that negative weight.READ MORE
Following the Leader: the Daily Duties of the Submissive
You may believe the submissive person in a relationship doesn’t have to do anything besides what the Master instructs. And yes, that is true, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have other obligations.READ MORE
Guide to Mummification
To be restricted is one of a slave's greatest desires. Being bound so tightly around their entire body, leaving them completely subdued, produces a kind of stimulation unlike any other.READ MORE
Here Kitty, Kitty! Female Kitten RolePlay
Kitten play is one of the most common and popular ways in which people partake on pet play. It dates back to a really long time ago, and it’s no surprise us humans are so tempted by it…who doesn’t love a cute little kitty?READ MORE
How to Be the Slave Master Craves
Pleasing Master is such a big part of a sub role—every action, big or small, can help to contribute to the stimulation and eroticism of experience as a whole.READ MORE
How to Get Your Lover to Dominate You
Life would be so much simpler if you could look at your lover and say, "I want you to tie me up, tell me what to do and spank me like the bad girl that I am when I misbehave."READ MORE
Keeping Your Submissive Under Your Control In Public
If you are a dominant in a relationship, you may know most times things don’t stop outside the bedroom. The job of a dominant is never done…so you can continue the training even in public.READ MORE
Learn to Love Being Submissive to your Master!
Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.READ MORE
Locked Out Of Heaven: Female chastity & orgasm denial
Orgasm denial it’s a great way to keep your partner on her toes. It’s really easy to practice, because it only takes a little imagination and some willpower, wink*.READ MORE
Matchmaker, Make Me A Match - The Right Dom for Me!
If you are a submissive, it may take you some time finding the perfect dominant for you. And that is ok; we’ve all been there.READ MORE
Never the Same Twice - Exploring Breast Bondage Rope Tying Techniques
Because I’m sure you are extremely curious to know how exactly you do breast bondage,I’ve brought you this really informative article aboutbreast bondage techniques.READ MORE
New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know
We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?READ MORE
Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests
People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.READ MORE
Pinch Me I’m Dreaming - Performing Self-Bondage with Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are one of the most popular toys out there. They provide that wonderful feeling between pain and pleasure that many of us look after, am I right?READ MORE
Sex Radar Lover - Long Distance BDSM Ideas
Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you.READ MORE
Sharing your BDSM Fantasies
Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.READ MORE
Sit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!
Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle. So, want to know what is it all about? Wink*READ MORE
Switch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?
Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.READ MORE
The submissive Role in BDSM
I think we can all agree every relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM, can benefit from some negotiation. Negotiation is nothing more than having a discussion about the practices and expectations about the relationship and the activities…and of course, about compromising.READ MORE
The Submissive’s Checklist!
There are several things a submissive has to keep in mind when they enter a submissive - dominant relationship. They will need to be respectful, tend to their master and obey them, for instance.READ MORE
The Submissive’s Mantras
The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.READ MORE
Trying out BDSM for the very first time?
So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot. Your journey will be adventurous and full of thrills and excitements.READ MORE
What is submission?
Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel? If you are wondering these questions, then you have come to the right place.READ MORE
What Type of Submissive are you?
They say that variety is the spice of life. Some perceptive (smartass) individuals would like to point out that spices are a personal preference and that everyone has their favorites.READ MORE
Yee-haw! Training Your Pet Pony for Playtime!
The main point about having a pony is to play with it, right? And just like any other form of play, it’s going to take some effort to get there…and just like any kind of play, it’s definitely worth it wink*.READ MORE