Real People Real Bondage - Male Dominant

As I have my morning coffee, I check my e-mail and watch morning news. I take care of the house while everybody goes to work and school. Watching TV when I was about 5, I saw a woman bound and gagged and I got aroused. It took me a number of years after that to learn this was a sexual activity.

I was 17. I saw a picture of a woman tied up online. Now, bear in mind this was the early 1990's, the internet was nothing like it was now and I liked what I saw and it gave me that feeling (of being turned on) and searched for more of it.

What life? Pffft! Haha…but no really, I live pretty chill. Usually just happy to get through the day whilst creating the fewest waves possible. Some people feel eager to take on the world and make the mark on the world. I say good for them! Excelsior and all that! Me, I'm happy with a nap.

Business negotiations, negotiating import/export agreements, contract negotiations, extensive litigation/lawsuits, arguing back and forth and discussing/negotiating to resolve litigation or continue litigation, brainstorming with attorneys, businessmen, and others in regards to litigation strategy and business strategy.

We are a very normal retired couple that enjoys golf, the beach, fine wine and going to dinner with our friends. We decided to explore our sexuality a little bit and tried a little rope fun and she really liked it....so did I!

I'm 21, and a third year university student; I’m currently studying History in Wales and I've been with my girlfriend for just over 9 months. I watch Formula one, read Tolkien, game and drink as frequently as possible.

I'm a manager, a licensed professional, a horse owner, a home owner and a devoted husband. If you met me on the street, you'd meet the face of normalcy. I'm in my 50's, fit, with a beautiful wife, adult kids, grand kids, dogs, cats and debt!

I work a very active job; constantly on the move. And also, very boring. When I was in high school the neighbor girl let me tie her up. It was very good and exciting. I like applying ropes or straps. This gets the blood flowing, and the seeing the final product. The girl squirming to get free is a real turn on.

I am a retired engineer, married for 40+ years. A traveler who likes to take extended month long camping/hiking/backpacking trips in the West. Spent today making repairs on a wood kayak I built in preparation for a weeklong river kayak trip.

I am an early divorced forties male who owns his own business. I knew from an early age I was into bondage, always playing games that involved other kids being tied up (always females).I used to love watching cop shows from the 70's and would wait for the damsel in distress scene.

Heavy equipment operator & commercial driver. Early on, I Ioved the DiD’s from TV shows like Knight Rider, The A-Team and The X-Files later on in life. I think that drove my love for seeing beautiful women bound and gagged.

I work during the day and spend my evenings with my dogs and wife enjoying life and making music. I’m not sure exactly when it was, but early on in life I realized that I started to feel funny when I’d see people getting tied up and kidnapped in movies.

I’m a medical professional with thirty years of experience. I stay active (outside of the dungeon) riding a bicycle and hiking, and get mental stimulation reading about history and science.

I'm retired and spend my days doing home improvement projects, riding my bicycle, restoring old cars, and doing some hunting in the fall. I was about 10 years old when I first realized I loved the appearance of the female body in bondage. From there, I found some willing neighborhood girls who would visit my back yard "hide out" to play bondage games.

My vanilla life is very laid back and low key. I love to laugh, so I crack jokes and try to find humor in most things. I'm a musician, so I obviously have a passion for music. I'm also a big movie watcher.

I am a 69-year-old Dominant/Master in the BDSM lifestyle to a 26-year-old slave. I do have to live in a vanilla world as do we all, but even in that world I tend to be a leader. I am a Project Manager for a Fortune 500 engineering/consulting firm.

My life is rather dull since I retired from truck driving and my wife died, but I spend a great feal of time on the Fetlife website, reading posts from other members and interacting with friends on the site.

Remarkably normal, I’m sorry to say. I’m self-employed, so I never quite know what the day will hold as far as work goes, but it’s hardly anything sexy. When things are slow, we like to enjoy our time by going out around town or traveling.

Honestly pretty average! I’m known a lot more for being the local nerdy comedian than anything else. I spend most of my time writing fiction and coming up with terrible jokes to make all of my friends groan over.

I'm a writer, spending time at the computer compiling content for press releases and the Internet. As a teenager. My interest was piqued by the covers on those old detective magazines. My partner(s) have always been the submissive (especially when they realized that the experience could intensify orgasms).

I'm a 30-year-old guy with a passion for all things bondage related. My everyday life is a little busy at the moment, since I'm in the middle of trying to move. But otherwise, it's fun and enjoyable.

I’m a 6-foot, 180-pound, 40 something, dark, sex on two legs of a man! Well that’s how my little one (wife) describes me. Now on to a more serious note, I’m a confident (not cocky), loving, caring, family man. My everyday vanilla life is typical, but not predictable. I work for and serve in a vital role for the surrounding community.

Not sure what age, but when I was rather young. Seeing a female tied up, gagged on various TV shows and in movies. I found that very exciting. In my early teens, I first saw Detective magazines.

It’s cliché but I would describe myself as a nerdy, kind of shy, but normal guy. I’m in my late twenties trying to navigate that ridiculous transition into a full adult. I’m juggling a full time job and school, but I like to spend my free time playing video games and cooking with my gf.

Since graduating with my Bachelor's (in City Planning of all things) I've been working in the human services field. Presently I manage the support services for a caseload of adults with various physical and intellectual disabilities.

I wear a suit everyday to work for my corporate job. I enjoy fine food, drinks and city events. On the weekends you usually can find me out downtown with my group of friends and upon meeting me you'd probably have no idea I would be into bondage.

As far as my daily life goes, I work at as a quality reviewer for a 3rd party insurance and human resource company. Really, nothing exciting. I enjoy cooking and baking or just overall experimentation in the kitchen. Only realized I liked cooking about 6 years ago, and it's been a growing experience for me.

My life revolves around the greatest girlfriend and partner anyone could ask for and my amazing dog who is like my child. I am a huge sports fan. Go Giants, Rangers and Mets. Grew up playing sports. I am a tv/movie junkie as well. Due to an accident many years ago I am not as active as I once was.

My wife and I are both busy healthcare professionals, and we also have four small children. It helps that our kids have a set bedtime that we (mostly) stick to, and they are used to sleeping in their own beds. Our busy schedules don't usually leave a lot of time to play, unfortunately, but when we do make time, we try to make the most of it.

I first realized that I was into bondage when I was 20 years old and my girlfriend (now wife) and I had gone into an adult store and we had seen some of the bondage items that they had sold and we talked about it and decided we wanted to try it.