Try Something New - Part 4

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Taking control, Madame

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

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Taking the Plunge Together: Guidelines for Pegging

When it comes to pegging, you should obviously have a lot of fun. But in order for you and your partner to have fun, you will need to follow some guidelines to make the most out of this wonderful experience.

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Tasty Ways to Mix Food and Foreplay

Food and sex are definitely two of the greatest sources of pleasure in life. It is a good idea to combine them every once in a while. More specifically, you can always combine them in foreplay to get the best out of both worlds.

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Tempting Transformation - Creating a Dominatrix Persona

Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.

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The 100 Hour Self-Bondage Challenge!

If you love self-bondage and spending on it, have you thought about doing a challenge? In this case, I’m going to give you some ideas for you to do your own 100 hours self-bondage experiment.

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The Allure Of The Feminine Physique - How to Cross Dress & Look the Part!

Thou shall offer food. Make sure to have dinner ready when she gets home. Bonus points if you actually plan ahead what you will be eating. This is the perfect way of letting her known you are on his mind and you are aware of her needs.

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The Awesome Power of BDSM Gags - Playing Safe & Secure!

If you are new to the BDSM world, you may have heard the term gag just about a million times… And you may have been to embarrassed to ask what it actually means and entails and why do people do it?

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The Beginner’s Guide To Having Sex In Public

Getting caught is one of the most popular and intense sexual fetish and fantasy you can experience in many ways! The sex scene based on such a fetish is not strict at all.

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The Basic Aspects of Pegging

When it comes to pegging, there will be some things you must know before you try it. More than what it is or how it’s done, there are three basic aspects there are key in the act of pegging your partner.

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The Best and Funniest Compliments to Turn On a Man

As a rule, all men love receiving compliments, it is a known fact *wink* But usually we tend to give them the same compliments over and over again (‘You are so cute!’ or ‘I find you so attractive’).

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The Best BDSM Outfits for a Sexy Christmas

Well, wonder no more! Here are some great ideas to spice up your Christmas plus give you and your partner some unique moments of intense sexual pleasure!

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The Best Positions for First Time Sexual Encounters

No one ever said first time’s the charm. Truth be told, first times tend to be quite messy, imperfect and not what you expected at all. But if you ask me this could be part of the charm.

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The Flavors of Sexual Desire

I can clearly recall the night I had my first orgasm. At that time, my parents had just upgraded the cable, and our free trial of Cinemax, or Skinemax as my brother joked, was still on going.

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The Fulfilling Effects of Male Chastity on your Relationship

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexually related experiences out there.

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The Hidden Benefits Of Having Sex In Public (And Why You Should Try It Now)

Public sex is a particular fetish for some BDSM practitioners and it can be practiced in a variety of ways! The high level of exhibitionism required for such a fetish makes sexual encounters more intense.

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The Highly Erotic Aspects of Cross-Dressing

Cross-dressing comes with a lot of advantages for your sexuality and emotional state as well. Here are the best aspects about cross-dressing and how this practice can increase you eroticism!

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The Ideal Vegan Toys For Each Type Of Fetish

Vegan sexual arsenal can successfully replace any sex toys you might have in your bedroom or your kinky closet. Here the most popular fetishes that you could enjoy by using high quality vegan toys and why you should give it a fair try!

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The Ins & Outs of Strap-On Sex

Strap-on sex isn't just for lesbians anymore! Lots of couples are also exploring this new sexual adventure. With so many different styles and sizes of strap-ons in the market today, it's a wonderful time to add a strap-on (or two!) to your bag of tricks for some extra treats.

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The Master’s List of Creative Slave Commands, Pt. I

Every slave wants to feel owned, right? Because if they don’t feel their Master has control over them, what is even the point? The Master can achieve this through different ways, it can be something really small or a big gesture.

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The No Words Approach to Meeting Women

You may believe it is impossible, but you can actually get a girl to notice you without talking to her! Sometimes you really like a woman but haven’t had the chance to talk to her or you don’t know how to approach her.

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The Passion Puzzle: Keeping Your Sexual Relationship Interesting

It’s proven: that mad lust and desire you feel for your partner will most likely fade in 18 months. But that doesn’t mean you will stop having sex. It just means that uncontrollable need for your partner will be a bit more subdued.

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The Secrets to Impulsive Flirting

Impulsive flirting comes naturally to some people, while others tend to think about it more before approaching someone else. Being an impulsive flirt can be an asset. It definitely has some charm.

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The Submissive Role in BDSM

I think we can all agree every relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM, can benefit from some negotiation. Negotiation is nothing more than having a discussion about the practices and expectations about the relationship and the activities.

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The Truth About What Men Really Think About Sex

Knowing more about the masculine mind can really be handy when you are trying to flirt with men. In order to win their heart, you should definitely learn a bit more about how their mind works.

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The Ultimate Guide to Bondage Rope

One of the first things that I always get asked when it comes to bondage BDSM basics is: what kind of rope should I use? What bondage type is the one I should be doing? For beginners these questions can be quite vexing.

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The Ultimate Guide to the Male Prostate

The prostate. That old men’s mystery that still remains something a bit unknown to a lot of people. But as the old saying goes, they key to maintaining good prostrate health is to inform yourself (I can’t be the only one who has heard of this, right? Wink*).

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The Whole ‘Kitten’ Kaboodle - Essential BDSM Pet Play Gear & Toys

In order to do some fun pet play you will need to acquire some necessary accessories. What exactly do you need and how many pieces and elements you get will be entirely dependent on your type of play, what your pet is and just what you and your partner need and want, as usual wink*.

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Things that you should know about Period Sex

One of the biggest taboos out there is having sex when the woman is on her period. Some couples opt for other options when it is that time of the month (like oral sex or masturbation) because they don’t think actual penetration is on the table.

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Thrilling tips for cross-dressing outside your sex life

Crossdressing opens a whole new world of possibilities for you and your lover as you should be able to enjoy plenty of sex fetishes and fantasies together. Not to mention the sex toys and accessories that you can try when you are crossdressed.

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Tied Together: Bringing Bondage Into Your Relationship!

Trying new things and experimenting with new things is a part of life. Humans are constantly evolving and changing, and our sex lives are definitely not an exception.

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Tied & True - Trying Bondage Rope & Restraints

When you are a bondage beginner, you want to explore as many options as you can. The vast world of bondage has plenty of options for everyone.

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Tighten Up to Loosen Up: Stretching with Self-Bondage

There are many things a person can do alone and enjoy, like going to movies, having a bath, practicing bondage… If you have ventured on that fun and adventurous path, you how much fun you can have on your own.

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Tips to First Time Sex with a New Partner

Starting a relationship with a new partner is a wonderful thing. At this point, the butterflies in your stomachs are very much alive. Your adrenaline is very high that the first time you become intimate with each other is usually as thrilling as it is nerve-wracking.

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Tips to improve your first encounter with your new partner for a Great Sex Experience

The first time you have sex with a new partner, it’s usually a very intense experience; it also tends to be a bit nerve wracking, because you don’t know each other very well, so you don’t really know what to expect.

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To The Limit - Why You Should Try a Strap-On!

Using a strap on on your partner can be a lot of fun. If you’re looking to explore new things in the bedroom, a strap on can be a great solution to enjoy different and fresh experiences.

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Top 3 Sex Toys for Lesbian Couples

Lesbian couples are some of the most exciting and intense couples out there. They can have impressive sexual experiences if they set their mind free to explore their sexuality together.

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Top 3 Sex Games to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex games, not necessarily fetishes (though some of them might be defined as fetishes or intense fantasies) are fun, exciting, entertaining. So, let’s see what some of the most entertaining sex games you can play with your lover and how you can make the most out of them!

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Top 10 + 1 Kinky New Year’s Resolutions you should do this Coming Year

Do you have a hard time committing to any of the New Year’s resolutions you’ve set for yourself in the past? This time around, you will be more than happy to keep to each one of these BDSM promises for the upcoming year.

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Toy of steel

It’s a plane…. it’s a bird…No, it’s a steel sex toy, wink*. Steel is a wonderful material because it offers a variety of perks; it is rigid, hard and holds temperature.

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Tricks to Step up Your Text Flirting Game

Flirting by text can be a great way to strengthen the connection between you and your crush. Sending a text to him or her every once in a while can help them think about you more often; this way you will always be on their mind.

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Trying out BDSM for the very first time?

Trying out BDSM for the very first time? Here are a few guidelines. So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet.

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Two to Tango - What Sex Toys Will Work for Us?

Have you heard sex toys are in? Everyday it seems to be someone new starts to get into the sex toy fever and if you ask me, I couldn’t be happier people are starting to explore new ways to achieve pleasurable experiences wink*.

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Ultimate 30-day Sex Challenge for Couples

Here are some sex ideas to keep you and your lover busy for an entire month. At the end of these challenges, you will enjoy a more developed and exciting sex life with your partner and increase the bonds between each other.

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Understanding Subspace

You may have probably heard this term mentioned several times before, but it’s really important to understand it fully if you are going to have a BDSM relationship, or even just a BDSM related experience.

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Vegan Bondage Gear You Absolutely Have To Try

If you are following a vegan lifestyle, your sexual arsenal shouldn’t be an exception from your values and vegan preferences. Luckily, you can find all kind of vegan bondage gear that you might be interested in.

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Vibrator Sensation Guide

The vibrator world can get a bit confusing, considering there are so many to choose from. On the other hand, it’s actually a good thing because it’s really easy to find one that adjusts perfectly to your needs.

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Viva Variety! Bondage as the All-Spice of Your Sex Life!

“New Year, New Life”, right? At least, that’s what everyone says. And as I’m sure most of you try to do a couple of resolutions or things to change/try on this New Year, your sex life shouldn’t be an exception.

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Wax Play 101

Wax play is one of the easiest ways to enjoy a nice sensual scene with your partner while adding just the right elements of pain/pleasure and eroticism. Wax play can be done a number of ways safely and without a lot of expense or physical exertion.

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Ways to Get a Guy To Kiss You

So you have done all your flirty moves by now… and he still hasn’t kissed you. You are out with him or have been out a few times but apparently he doesn’t get the signals you are sending him, even though he seems to like you back.

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Ways to make sure you will get laid tonight

If you are planning to have an intense sexual encounter tonight, you have to consider that is not all up to you, unless you are planning to masturbate.

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Weight Loss Guide: Kinkiest Tips On How To Slim Down ASAP

Aside from guiding you in having the best orgasm, we’re also here to help you bring back that strong, sizzling bod! So grab a ball gag (just to give this weight loss journey a good start) and keep reading our tips on how to effectively slim down.

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Welcome to Crossdresser’s Boudoir

If you are a man who loves to get in touch with its feminine side often, you will need a list of the essential items you will need to have in order to get the most out of every experience.

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Well Trained Strokes - Penis Pumping Techniques

Using a pump is quite easy, especially once you get the hang of it. Once you’ve already learned the basics, how it works and why it works, you will be ready to start pumping.

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What a Hetero Cross Dresser Should Know

Cross-dressing can come in many different versions and men do it for many different reasons. Each variation is permitted and you can find any possible combination of things. You can find homosexual men who love to cross dress or heterosexual men who like to do it.

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What a looker! Choosing the right wig for your face

You know how the old saying goes: every cross dresser loves a wig…haven’t heard of it? Ooops, must be only be the one who was heard it, wink*.

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What Every Guy Should Know Before Flirting

Almost every woman has the power to know when a guy is flirting with her. Usually, if the woman is interested, she will give signs. There are no guaranteed results, chemistry has a lot to do with this, but you can learn some tips to tip the balance in your favor.

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What Is Cock Pumping & How Do I Do It? 

The easiest things in life are the least expected: how to drive a car, cooking…using a cock pump, wink*. The basic part is, you put your penis into the “cock ring” and then place the pump outside it.

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What Is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies. Usually that fantasy comes with wanting to try it once, but cuckolding marriages/relationships are actually much more common than just one night flings.

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What Is Jelqing & How Do I Do It? 

You may be interested in jelqing because you are looking to start a cock pumping routine or are interested in trying it on its own to have a stronger and bigger penis.

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What Is Sport Sex And Why Every Couple Should Give It A Try

Most likely you’ve heard about the difference between making love and enjoying some passionate sport sex. Here are some advantages of sport sex and why you should make it part of your sexual life!

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What Is submission? 

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel?

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What Type of Submissive are you?

They say that variety is the spice of life. Some perceptive (smartass) individuals would like to point out that spices are a personal preference and that everyone has their favorites.

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What You Need For Rope Bondage!

If you are starting out with bondage, it may feel overwhelming. And that is ok, is only natural to feel that way. There are only about a million techniques and equipment, wink*.

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Why Couples Should Try Verbal Humiliation Once In A While

Among all of the fetishes and fantasies you can try with your lover, verbal humiliation is one of the most intense and exciting. The first form of this fetish is dirty talk.

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Why Married Couples Should Have an Occasional Guest in the Bedroom

If you are debating on this idea but you haven’t made up your mind just yet, here are some arguments to help you decide whether or not you should invite a guest in your bedroom.

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Why Public Sex is so Hot

Public sex is a fetish on its own and sometimes, it doesn’t even matter what kind of sex is performed as long as it is done publicly or with an audience.

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Why Should You Try Switching Gender Fetishes

You might just discover that you like more sex scenarios than you ever thought you would. But you should keep an open mind in order to be able to enjoy such sex scenes.

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Why Some Men Love to Cross Dress

Why some men enjoy dressing up as woman is a bit of a mystery (besides of having a good time, of course, wink*). The root of the question is “why some men love to cross dress?”.

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Why should you give electro play a try

If you never used electro stimulators before, here is why you should give them a fair try and why you might actually fall in love with them!

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Why Should You Invest in Vegan Sexual Arsenal

Vegan sexual arsenal is becoming more and more popular as time goes by and the reason for this is the big number of people who change their life in the favour of this new vegan influence.

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Workout Techniques for Your Wood Using Cock Pumps!

Using a pump is quite easy, especially once you get the hang of it. Once you’ve already learned the basics, how it works and why it works, you will be ready to start pumping.

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Yee-haw! Training Your Pet Pony for Playtime!

The main point about having a pony is to play with it, right? And just like any other form of play, it’s going to take some effort to get there…and just like any kind of play, it’s definitely worth it wink*.

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Yes, Ma’am - Taking Control As A New Dominatrix

If you’ve never thought you could be more dominant in the bedroom, think again. Experimenting with domination is a great way to explore your own sexuality, try something different with your partner and most of all, have plenty of fun!

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Yes please - Masturbating for your man

Every girl loves masturbating and touching herself, right? Don’t get me wrong; sex and sexual interactions with someone else are great of course, but if you ask me, there is something very special about pleasuring oneself that can’t be replicated.

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Yes, You should try cross dressing

Cross-dressing and gender play are a great form to explore one’s sexuality and to improve a person’s sex life. Dipping your toes in this practice can be as fully blown out as you want, so you can always go all out with it dressing.

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You Belong To Me - Training Boundaries for your new BDSM Sissy Slave

A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.

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Young & Wild: Getting Into BDSM Puppy Play

Puppy play is one the most common forms of pet play, probably because: who doesn’t love puppies? It plays with the master/slave dynamic a little bit in the sense someone is the owner and the other trainer will follow orders.

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Your Best Bondage Ever

Bondage and role-play are not just tying someone up or trying to pretend to be somebody else; they are a matter of fantasy and perception (among other things, wink*).

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Your First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it.

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Your First Vibrator

Getting a vibrator is new and exciting moment in a woman’s life. I usually tend to think every woman has at least one in her drawer, but, as I’m often reminded, that is not always the case.

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