Try Something New - Part 2

Choosing a harness is a very important process. Just like choosing a house, a car…a dildo, wink*. Usually, the man or woman using the dildo will choose their own preferred piece because, well, they are the ones that will be penetrated with it.

When you want to tie someone up and have your wicked way with them, ropes are probably the first thing you are thinking about…or chains, depending on preference wink*.

Bondage or vet wrap is a piece of stretchy and flexible fabric commonly used on bondage scenarios and bondage play. It was first used in the real life world by veterinarians, but it has evolved into being used for some more…entertainment related uses wink*.

You’ve probably heard this coming from me plenty of times before but I will always repeat it: everyone should masturbate more often, especially women. In the old days, masturbation was a sort of taboo and something women were largely excluded from.

If you don’t know just right what we are talking about, here are some things to consider when you are not sure if you should cross-dress or not!

Getting into bondage can be intimidating, especially if you’ve never really experimented with sex. Don’t worry – it can actually be really rewarding and exhilarating. Especially with the right toys.

If you have ever dreamed about riding your lovely sub or partner, this is exactly what you need to read… and yes, literally ride them, not just the way you are thinking about wink*.

It is unlikely the first thought that comes to mind when we get a glass dildo will be: “I should probably heat /cool this before using it, right?” Because, when be talk about sex toys, most people do not think about experimenting with different temperatures and I don’t blame them.

What’s not to love about glass? This material is not porous, strong and it pairs well with all kinds of lube available in the market (it’s a win-win situation for everyone, wink*).

Vibrators are a girl’s best friend… or so they say right? Wink* These are one of the main toys and principal equipment needed in order to get in charge of your own sexuality and of your own orgasms.

Self bondage is a wonderful way to play and indulge in bondage. But sometimes we get stuck in a route and as you know, routine can be somewhat boring.

Texting is one of the most utilized forms of communication nowadays. It is also one way to continue your flirting activities with someone you desire.

As you may be aware, pussy pumps can come in many shapes and sizes (now, where have I heard that before? wink*) and therefore, can be used in many different ways.

Cock pumps are a great way to enhance and achieve your complete penis potential. It’s also great to improve overall men’s health and of great help if you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction.

Prostate stimulation is a great way to experiment new types of pleasure you haven’t gotten before. Like they say, you haven’t lived till you’ve had a prostate orgasm…what? Am I the only one who has ever heard that one? Wink*.

Gags are used to silence a much active submissive during bondage sessions…or to mute a talkative partner wink*. They exist in several types, but probably the most common ones are the good ol’ ball gags.

Tying your arms and legs it’s one of the most common ideas when someone wants to try self bondage. And it’s easy to see why; most of us are rendered useless when we can’t use our arms and legs, obviously.

Kitten play is one of the most common and popular ways in which people partake on pet play. It dates back to a really long time ago, and it’s no surprise us humans are so tempted by it…who doesn’t love a cute little kitty? Wink*.

Sometimes you just want to continue to wear bondage outside the playroom! The fact you are not playing around the house with your partner doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the benefits of wearing some bondage.

Having a new partner it’s always exciting and a bit nerve wracking as well. You don’t know what they enjoy in bed or what turns them on and they don’t know those things about you either. But the good part is, it’s extremely fun to experiment what your sex life will look like.

Tying your arms and legs it’s one of the most common ideas when someone wants to try self bondage. And it’s easy to see why; most of us are rendered useless when we can’t use our arms and legs, obviously.

Who doesn’t love foreplay? I mean, if you love pleasure and fun things you probably love foreplay too. Even though there is some sort of greater importance of foreplay for women, men also need it.

As time passes by, we might get lost in our daily lives and place our sexual life in second place. This is a crucial mistake! Sexual experiences have no age and no limits, other than what we set for ourselves.

Being a dominatrix involves a lot of things. It’s a mix of several aspects; combining attire, toys, a scene, and of course, the right attitude. Being a dominatrix is a state of mind and you need to work and put a little effort in order to do get into it.

Being a dominatrix can seem like a piece of cake, but it’s actually harder than it looks. There are not just outfits and props, there’s a lot more than that.

If your lover is not on the same page with you quite yet, here is what you should consider doing in order to help both of you enjoy an intense sex scene with your favourite gag involved!

Sexual routine is a problem that many couples have to face, especially when we talk about long terms relationships. But luckily, there are cures for this issue and the sooner you start fixing this problem, the better will be for your relationship and sexual life.

Any solution—usually water, silicone, or oil based—that helps to reduce friction during sexual acts to enhance pleasure. (And who wouldn't want that?)

You may have heard the term before and been a bit intimidated, but crossdressing is nothing more than wearing clothes and accessories that are traditionally associated with your opposite sex. As usual, there is no right or wrong way to do it.

Taking sexy photos with your lover is an activity that will no doubt create some red-hot heat between the two of you. Aside from its sexual promises—generating an erotic setting which can lead to an extremely heightened state of arousal.

Ohh, the wonders of doing things by yourself. Most times is nice doing certain things and activities with someone…but other times that is just not possible. And that is why I’ll be talking about self-bondage.

Self bondage is only the act of restraining or putting yourself in bondage alone, any time you want and for as long as you wish. Alternately, you can have someone else release you, after you are done playing with yourself.

Unlike what you may believe, edging is not just for men. Us lucky ladies can also reap the benefits of this practice! “But why would I want to try it? I can already have multiple orgasms!” Well, that is true, wink*.

Nipple clamps are a great way to torture and play with the nipples. The nipples being a highly erogenous zone, nipple clamps allow for erotic sensation, different and distinctive from the other sensations.

Nothing like a title that garners attention is there? Ha! I can just see men jumping into this while muttering things like "I already know plenty of ways to gag my girl."

It may or not be your biggest mission in life, but giving a woman a pretty big orgasm is certainly a cause to be pretty damn proud…so how can you do it?

Plenty of people start relationships online. With the rise of technology, is not a surprise a majority of people are finding their partner in the World Wide Web. And this number is growing even more when it comes to BDSM relationships.

There are some simple steps you can take in order to have mind-blowing orgasms, so if you are interested (and I know you are!), just keep reading!

How many times did you fantasize about having a sexual encounter that can give you multiple orgasms? Probably many, and there are actually ways to achieve that if you follow certain tips and tricks that will lead you on the right path.

Fantasy play is of many kinds and it can get as specific as you want it to be as long as you have what it takes to make it exciting and keep it engaging for both of you.

With relationships, especially new ones, there are lots of things to think about—what should I wear, when do I introduce my new partner to my friends, when will I meet their parents…how should I introduce them to my favorite sex toys.

There are sexual practices and techniques that you can try out during your sex scene to make your climax so much more intense, because, there are orgasms and there are amazing orgasms. And it is up to you to make the difference!

You might wonder what you can match your hood with in terms of outfit and how you can make yourself look even sexier while you are wearing it.

Orgasm belts are very popular sexual accessories among BDSM practitioners. If you are a beginner when it comes to using an orgasm belt, here are some tips that will most likely help you enjoy it a lot more!

If you have been reading long enough, chances are you are already aware of all the benefits of a regular milking regime for the prostate. Besides achieving completely powerful and different ejaculation orgasms, the health benefits of a good prostate massage have been long proven.

No matter how long we have been having sex or how many times we have done it, there are always new tricks and ideas to learn, don’t you agree? Wink*.

Nobody is born learning a particular skill. Yeah, sure, some people have an innate talent for something, but they have to work on it.

If you have a transgender dominant, consider yourself lucky! Let’s look at some main tips that you can use to please your transgender dominator and find sexual satisfaction while you are doing so!

Regardless of being Dom/me or sub, the scene that is set up for a session will play an important role in enhancing the experience. Maybe the best way to think of it in terms of scene is that BDSM is a form of performance, an art.

Tying people up is always fun. Well, tying people up and then having your wicked way with them is 10 times more fun actually. But as we all know, in theory a lot of things are fun.

Bedrooms serve multiple purposes such as: relaxation, intimacy, fantasies, sexual experiences, resting, but all of them have one thing in common-comfort.

Clitoral pumps are great, everybody knows that, right? Wink*. There are many reasons why you should incorporate one to your sex life, the first two being how it looks and how it feels.

When you think of mouth gagsyou might automatically think of BDSMsex scenes and fetishes. But you don’t have to use mouth gags only in BDSM fantasies.

Ok, so now that you’re all excited to try Ben Wa Balls, you are probably wondering how to put them on. It’s actually extremely easy, and although there can be some variations depending on the type of balls you have (no pun intended wink*), the process is the same.

When it comes to sexually stimulating your partner, you have plenty of options to choose from and you can be as inventive as you feel comfortable to.

Latex tends to be a material that inspires a lot of feelings in people. And who can blame them? Nothing compares to touching a garment made out of latex…and nothing compares to seeing someone wearing a latex piece wink*.

Chastity devices may sound like something from generations past, but they are quite common in the BDSM world of today. Both men and women are made to wear these chastity devices for a variety of reasons.

Gags as well as other BDSM accessories can make the difference between a random sex scene and a very intense one! Keep reading to discover the excitement of using the right gag when you are being intimate with your lover and how to make the most out of it!

When you are first starting out it pays very well to listen carefully when people talk about their role orientation. Communication is a two-way street and nurturing a dialog will give you a much better idea of how they see themselves and their interests.

Top drop, sub drop. These are terms used to describe some of the feelings experienced after a BDSM scene. You hear a lot about sub drop but not so much about top drop.

The role of a dungeon monitor is quite simple: making sure everyone is having a good time while maintaining the party/house rules. But just because is simple doesn’t mean everyone can do it.

You know how the saying goes, different spanks, different tools…isn’t that the way it goes? Wink*. There is a variety of equipment you can use and each and every one of them will create a different spanking, so choose carefully wink*.

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

Sensory deprivation is one of the most popular forms of play out there. And if you are of those who love to incorporate it to their lives, you will need a hood.

Once you have gotten a little taste of the BDSM plate, it's easy to understand if you want to play a bit more and introduce it to your partner in order for more sexy times to come.

Every person who loves bondage must know how to tie a mean cinch knot. It’s one of the keys in order to do a lot fun scenarios and have a lot of fun in general. Cinch nooses are basically slip knots with a lot of friction.

If you have dreamt about doing this Japanese breast bondage and have no idea how, I’ve got your back, so no worries there! Wink*. This is a very easy version that can be done in a few minutes, so it’s great for beginners.

Japanese style rope bondage is incredibly beautiful and has many adepts; it’s easy to see why, it looks incredibly sophisticated and elegant, creating spectacular visions.

Jelqing is a must if you want to use a cock pump or want to exercise your penis to enlarge it. But you may be wondering, what is jelqing?

Let’s take a look at some useful tips and tricks that will keep your sexual life intense and entertaining for the long run without having to cheat on your partner! Sex is teamwork and it should be enjoyed equally by both partners!

Unfortunately, long distance relationships happen nowadays. If you and your partner find yourselves in this position here are some tips and tricks to help you overcome the obstacles and struggles that this type of relationship implies.

If you are interested in pony play, you may start to wonder what exactly you need to start playing. Well, to start with: a willing partner wink*.

You may have heard about how women should practice Kegel exercises to strengthen their pelvis muscle and how much it helps increase sexual pleasure.

Every person who loves bondage must know how to tie a mean cinch knot. It’s one of the keys in order to do a lot of fun scenarios and have a lot of fun in general.

You’ve probably seen millions of penis pumps over the years and wondered why you would want to try them sometimes. “What is the point of penis pumps? Are they for me?” I hear you ask across the screen.

When it comes to being a good dominatrix, there are some things you need to keep in mind. Besides confidence, the right outfit, the props you will use, and a general idea about the scene, your will need the right attitude.

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

If you are curious about self bondage but don’t know where to start, this is for you (I’m a mind reader). Keep in mind safety it’s first and should always have a pair of scissors or a knife near you to get out.

Heels are one of the basics in every cross dresser closet, but learning how to walk around in them can be somewhat of a challenge. That is why is so important to master them properly, so keep reading to have the best tips on it wink*.

Rope bondage is a common practice in the BDSM community, however knowing how to use your rope and to work with it demands a lot of work and dedication, so to speak.

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject.

Pet play is a very fun way to practice BDSM so if you have already decided to try some or are thinking about it, it’s time for you to find out some things you will need in order to do it.

We all have our little sexual kinks, right? And most times we tend to believe we’re the only ones we enjoy or fantasize about that particular fantasy, but chances are they probably are more common than you give them credit for.

The moment when you decide to start cross dressing is a very big one. You can have those thoughts and desires since a very long time before you actually decide to take the plunge and start to do it.

If you had not noticed, sex after coming out as a cross dresser changes, wink*… But that is not a bad thing! It’s just that things will be a bit different, that is all.

The way you are dressed has a great impact on your sexual life and you shouldn’t neglect this aspect when you are going for an intense sexual encounter.

The edging practice is really quite easy to do; you just need to focus. Edging is about getting to the point of almost having an orgasm but stopping right before you actually get there, thus edging to the orgasm.

When you are a master, one of your principal tasks should be constantly reassuring your slave. This translates to making them feel loved, and this in turn means making them happy.

We live in a world that requires us to spend many hours a day at the office, in case we have this kind of job and we need to provide for ourselves and our family. So, let’s look at how you can enjoy some lusty moments during your long hours of work at the office!