Try Something New - Part 3
Made for Action: Strap-Ons & You!
A strap on is nothing more than a harness and a dildo. Strap ons are used to penetrate, obviously. So they are a must have if you and your partner want to try pegging or the bend over boyfriend.
READ MOREMaid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub
If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!), so chances are you are already partaking in some sissy related fun.
READ MOREMake Sex Even Better With New Sensations for the Senses!
Senses are the primary thing we use in our everyday life. They are basically what we need to survive and move into the world; our window to the world.
READ MOREMale Chastity and Orgasm Denial
Where I come from there is a little phrase that is always on my mind: “It is known you should not try male chastity… because the moment you do, you will be hooked forever wink*”
READ MOREMale Oral Sex Training Ideas
My oh my! But what a big tongue you have A long tongue, what is it good for? Well I could think about numerous things that could be enhanced if doing with a long tongue.
READ MOREMale Prostate Massages
Prostate massages can be something that may sound scary. But like most things, it’s only scary because it can be something unknown, especially to a lot of men.
READ MOREMastering the art of Cosplay
If you think cosplay and costumes are a nerd's area, think again, because costumes can bring the thrill needed to make your bedroom's sessions explode with pleasure.
READ MOREMen’s Health Guide - Kegel’s Exercises for Men!? (It’s true!)
Once you have made the decision to start practicing Kegel exercises in order to improve your sexual health and overall penis health, the only thing you have left it’s to start doing them! Wink*.
READ MOREMistress At Play - Being The Dominant Woman
Trying some dominant-submissive play in the bedroom is always a good idea. This is a great opportunity to have fun and experience the psychological experience of dominating someone; more than the physical aspect of things, the experience is more mental that anything else.
READ MOREMore Than a Mouthful! All About Gags!
In gags you will find the spice of life, right? Wink*. Everyone has a favorite…although, why choose? You can have all you want… On one hand, ball gags continue to be the most popular ones.
READ MOREMore Than A Mouthful Proper Wear & Care of Your Gag!
Once you get the green light from a person to wear a gag, it’s really easy to put the toy on them. It can vary depending on the type, but the general rules are quite the same.
READ MOREMy First Spanking
You know how the old saying goes “nothing like a good ol’ spanking”… Am I the only one who has heard of it? Hehe. There are numerous ways you can do one, and that includes the 1 million dollar question: will you use hands or a prop?
READ MOREMy First Time - Being a Dungeon Monitor
A dungeon monitor is simply someone who makes sure the rules are being followed during a play scene or a party. Their job also entails creating a safe environment overall for everyone involved.
READ MORENaughty Ideas For The Best Roleplay Scenarios
So, if you want to maintain the passion alive in you couple life, here are some fun and exciting roleplays that you should definitely try at least once!
READ MORENew Tingles & Touches: Getting it on with Sex Toys
Every day we say our prayers thanking the god of sex toys out there. They are not only a great addition to any couples sex life; they are also great to be used on their own… solo style.
READ MORENew to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know
We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?
READ MOREOf Humans & Horses: Erotic Pony Play for Beginners
You may have heard about pony play before and have asked yourself: what on earth is that? And more importantly, is it for me? Do I want to try it?
READ MOREOh my Prostate
G-spot, G-spot, G-spot… Sometimes it seems the only thing everyone talks about is the most erogenous area for a woman. But what about men, I hear you ask?
READ MOREOh, Zap! Electric Sex Fun
Electric toys can make you feel completely different and can make you have very intense powerful orgasms. They can offer a very light sensation or a very hard and intense feeling, depending on the toy and the power setting.
READ MOREOn A Short Leash: A Pet Play Self Bondage Scene
Being tied up like a kitty or a puppy is one of the biggest fantasies when you are into pet play, And if you also like self bondage, it’s a perfect combination!
READ MOREOn The Edge - Properly Edging Yourself Towards Climax
Edging is a great practice to achieve better and more powerful orgasms. If you have trouble achieving orgasms, edging can be a great way to help things out a little.
READ MOREOoh, La, La! Training Your Sissy Maid Properly
Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.
READ MOREOpen For Anything! Let’s Talk About Pegging & Your Relationship!
Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone…But good news is, I’m here wink*.
READ MOREOrgasm 101 – What is Trigasm and how to achieve it
You heard most likely of a lot of types or orgasms and you probably tried reaching as many of them as possible. But if you are past multiple orgasms, anal orgasms and other types of orgasms, you are ready for the ultimate type of orgasm called Trigasm.
READ MOREOrgasm Edging & the Point of No Return!
When you are practicing edging, you want to stop just before you orgasm. And that line between “I’m just about to climax no matter what happens” and “I can stop and be fine”, can be quite thin.
READ MOREOrgasmic Nipple Play
You may not be aware of it, but: your nipples are one of the most erogenous zones in your body (Ha, got cha, of course you knew that wink*). Given their nature, there are many ways one can make the most out of their sensitivity.
READ MOREPerfect sex toys for an intense threesome
Sex toys can completely change the course of a sex scene and they can bring the excitement you need to enjoy your intimate life even better.
READ MOREPerforming Rope Tricks - How to Tie Your Own Self Bondage Rope Body Harness!
Body harnesses are useful if you want to use a little bondage in public or in your daily life. You can tie one and then get dressed as you would normally to go on with your daily life in public.
READ MOREPerforming Rope Tricks - Self-Bondage Hogtie How-Tos!
Hogties are extremely fun, but they can be a bit harder to get if you like a bit of solo play or don’t have anyone around. But once you learn how to do it properly, things will get really easy, so how about we learn how to tie a hogtie on our own? Wink*.
READ MOREPet Roleplay Ideas for Beyond the Bedroom
Pet play is extremely fun. Just ask anyone who has tried it and you’ll see wink*. You can either enjoy some time off as a lovely kitten or puppy… or you can be the owner of a cute kitty or a rambunctious puppy, if you so desire.
READ MOREPhoning It In
You may believe this is a thing that people only do in movies, but it is quite common so don’t get intimidated; it is actually quite easy.
READ MOREPinch Me I’m Dreaming - Performing Self-Bondage with Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are one of the most popular toys out there. They provide that wonderful feeling between pain and pleasure that many of us look after, am I right?
READ MOREPlaying His Testicles: Surefire Ways to Make Your Man Hot and Horny
A lot of guys may feel as if their balls get the short end of the stick when they are receiving oral sex. A lot of men may actually verbalize, “Hey, you know what would be very nice? If you play a bit with my balls when you are giving me a blow job."
READ MOREPlug & Play - The Best Positions for Pegging
Whether you love pegging and are looking to get out of the routine and are looking for new positions to try it, or you’re a newbie considering for the best position to try it, you want to continue reading along.
READ MOREPreparing for Tantric Sex
Contrary to what you may believe, tantric sex is not about having one intense eight hour sex session. In tantric sessions, sex is actually optional, not mandatory.
READ MOREPreparing your House for BDSM Play
There are lots of little things you can do to prep the bedroom so that when the time is right you already have the stage set. For instance, plan ahead for a bit of restraint.
READ MOREProper Jelqing Technique - Getting Results the Right Way
There are lots of little things you can do to prep the bedroom so that when the time is right you already have the stage set. For instance, plan ahead for a bit of restraint.
READ MOREPumping For More Than Pleasure - More Benefits of Using Cock Pumps!
Pumps are the most natural way to enhance and enlarge a man’s penis. They create a vacuum that will increase blood flow into the penis, engorging the member.
READ MOREPumping the D - Get In Shape To Satisfy!
Cock pumps are a great way to enhance and achieve your complete penis potential. It’s also great to improve overall men’s health and of great help if you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction.
READ MOREPushing His Buttons - Male BDSM Turn-ons
Turning on your partner is a must have to experience a great sexual experience. And we all like to learn some new tricks every now and then, right? It is only natural to be on the look-out for new techniques to try in the bedroom.
READ MOREPussy pumping your way to orgasm
The clitoris is an organ. Most important, is an erectile organ. This will happen when the woman attached to it gets turned on, so that is a perk wink*.
READ MOREPut a Little Spark into Your Play: Violet Wands
Tied to the cross, Jane cannot see Mike behind her. The anticipation thick in the air, Jane shivers as she waits, not knowing what was coming.
READ MOREQuick Bondage Wrap Ideas For Beginners!
Bondage wrap is a great way to practice some light bondage and have fun. It’s really easy to put it on and really easy to get it off, so it’s perfect for short scenes, beginners, or just for those who don’t have that much experience.
READ MOREQuick Ways to Boost Your Confidence
We all have our off days when we don’t feel as confident as we should be. It is completely normal for this to happen, those are the days when you need something to increase your assertiveness.
READ MOREReasons Why You Should Have Tantric Sex
The practice of Tantric sex has been around for about 5000 years, even longer than me and my infinite wisdom… wink*These practices look to create a connection between a couple to increase their intimacy and eventually achieve a higher level of spirituality.
READ MORERoleplaying 101
When I was a teenager, roleplaying meant sitting in my friend's basement and talking about elves, dump stats, dragons, and dice. Now that I'm older, roleplaying has turned into a very grown-up, very sexy game of make believe.
READ MORERope Bondage Style Guide
Thankfully for us, there are several styles and methods one can practice rope bondage (can I get a hurrah?). The basis of rope bondage is, well, tying people up with rope, but is not that simple as it sounds.
READ MOREReady to go Deeper? Anal Play Advice for Before, During & After
If you want to indulge in a bit of anal sex, you need to be prepared. There’s no reason to be scared, anal sex can add a very different pleasure level to your sex life, but you do need to prepare and take some precautions.
READ MORERoleplays to try when you are older
Let’s look at some of the most popular fetishes among the mature couples, who know exactly what they want and how they are going to achieve!
READ MORESafely Using Dildos for Anal, Vaginal, or Interchangeable Play
Dildos are one of the necessities and must have items a person has to have in their little toy box. You can use a dildo for both vaginal and anal penetration, but you will need to know the difference between the two so you can choose the right one for your activity.
READ MORESecrets of the Flirting No-Flirting Game
Usually, the whole flirting-no flirting game goes a little bit along these lines: you will look into someone’s eyes for a few moments and then look away as smile or laugh.
READ MORESelf Bondage Safety Tips
Everyone knows any form of bondage comes with its own safety risks. Although some involve more risk than others, safety is something you should always keep in mind.
READ MORESenses Beyond Senses - Methods to Indulge in Sensory Deprivation
Who doesn’t want to experiment with a little sensory deprivation in their lives? It usually consists on restricting the senses of sight and speech, but you could definitely play around a little bit.
READ MORESensual Blindfold Play Ideas
We have previously established just how awesome and intense sexual activities can be if you blindfold your partner. From using a (surprise!) sex toy on them and feeding them sensuous foods to giving them a massage.
READ MORESex toys for perfect masturbation
When it comes to masturbation, you can reach intense sexual pleasure and satisfaction as well as an exciting orgasm through various ways. Obviously, the method you choose would depend on your sexual preferences.
READ MORESeven Ways to Play Rough With Your Sissy Sub
Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!
READ MORESex accessories you should try asap
Within the BDSM community, bondage is one of the most common practices you can use to discipline your slave. But it can also be a kinky part of many other BDSM scenes.
READ MORESex Detox: Ways to recharge your Erotic Sex Life
Your sexual desire might not always be at its highest parameters and this can happen for a variety of reasons. Life, stress, daily events and even routine which might affect us in a multitude of ways.
READ MORESex Games that will Kill the Routine in the Bedroom
Sex games, not fetishes necessarily even if some of them might be defined as fetishes or intense fantasies. So let’s take a look at the most entertaining sex games that you can play with your lover and how you can make the most out of them!
READ MORESex Kitten Wig Tips
Wigs are a wonderful way to step up your BDSM games…Or just as a way to spice up things in bed. They are a must if you are into role-play and cross dressing, as well as other general things (like a specific fetish! Nobody can blame you wink*).
READ MORESex Surprises for Special Occasions
There is nothing like a sexy surprise to give your lover like an unforgettable night when you celebrate your anniversary or for a special holiday and even when there is no special occasion. So, let’s see some useful tricks and tips to set up a great sex scene and surprise your lover!
READ MORESex toys for gay couples
Gay couples can be considered lucky given all the options they have when it comes to enjoying an intense sexual encounter. Nowadays, gay couples are encouraged to explore their sexuality and express it within their intimate relationships.
READ MORESex toys that go with any type of fetish
When you are putting together your sexual arsenal, you need to consider the functionality of each toy you invest in. The best way to invest in a good set of toys is by considering your sexual preferences.
READ MORESexy Ideas to Indulge Your Foot Fetish
A foot fetish is one of the most common types of fetishes you can have out there. For some reason, a lot of people can’t get enough of it.They maybe just a body part to carry your whole weight and others may not even given them a second thought, yet maybe this is a good time to think about them in a different way? Wink*
READ MORESexy Ways to Boost Your Bondage Fun
Bondage can be super fun. Best of all, you don’t need to go all out to enjoy its perks. What this means is you don’t have to build a dungeon in your bedroom to introduce some bondage into your life.
READ MORESexting 101
It doesn’t matter if you are in a committed relationship or are just beginning to see a guy, the truth is everybody can appreciate a sexy text every once in a while (or more than several times in a while? Does that make sense? Wink*)
READ MORESexual Flirting Tips to Make Him Hard
You can say there are three types of flirting: the subtle one, the obvious one, and the one to drive someone crazy with lust. In order to turn a guy on, first, you will need to flirt with him a bit in a subtle way; you can’t go from 0 to a hundred in one swoop.
READ MORESexual Meditation for Better Sex
I'm always looking for new ways to increase and heighten sexual awareness and pleasure. And I'm sure I am not the only one interested; in fact I would bet everyone is constantly looking for ways to, well, feel better.
READ MORESexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 1
Role play can be a great addition to any sex life. Or even a cool way to spice things up on a date or just a regular sex night (or morning? Wink) You do need to plan ahead in order to get the most out of it; role play is not an improvised thing.
READ MORESexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 2
Role play can be a great way to have some fun and practice your creativity skills. Even if you haven’t practiced it before, it can be a great way to connect with your partner in a different way.
READ MORESharing your BDSM Fantasies
Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours, we can all agree is not the easiest thing in the world.
READ MOREShibari Rope Bondage 101
If you are interested in Shibari or Japanese rope bondage, you know it’s an art form: it takes a lot of time to learn, as well as dedication. As it is a separate entity from bondage, a quite specialized one in fact, there are many instructors that teach this beautiful and interesting form of bondage.
READ MOREShock to the System: Bringing Sensory Play into Your Lives
Sensory play it’s a good way to spice up your sex life and try something different. There are several ways you can bring it to your life, depending on what you like exactly and how intense do you want it to be.
READ MOREShould you use a gag when you masturbate?
When you are thinking of using a mouth gag to achieve a new level of sexual pleasure, you might be thinking of a sex scene that involves at least two partners. But that is not necessary the case.
READ MORESit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!
Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle.
READ MORESpeak Friend & Enter - How to Have Safe Pegging Playtime!
The Bend over Boyfriend or pegging position is something that attracts a lot of men and women just the same. Anal pleasure has been gaining more and more steam throughout the years and if you ask me, that’s wonderful!
READ MORESpecial Delivery! How to Treat a New Dildo on Your Doorstep!
It's recommend you take a good look at your new dildo before you use it. You first need to give it a through wash and then start to inspect it. You want to look out for any sharp edges or tears.
READ MORESpice it up with latex lingerie
Everybody loves latex, am I right? It feels great, it looks great and it comes in many different forms and varieties (just like me, ha! Wink*) What’s so great about this material is that you can do a million things with it and it never gets boring.
READ MORESqueezing into Shape - Kegel Exercises for Men
Kegel exercises are a great way to improve your pelvis muscle’s strength. You’ve probably heard a million times why women should practice them and how it can bring better orgasms and overall better sexual health.
READ MOREStarting Dominatrix
Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just OK, it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.
READ MORESteel Sex Toys 101
Luckily for us, sex toys exist. Even luckier for us, you can find them in a lot of materials. One material that is really popular (a lot of toys are made from it) is stainless steel.
READ MOREStep up your foreplay
Foreplay is a very important part of sex. I would even dare to say is even more important than sex itself because if someone is not properly aroused or in the mood, sex will never be enjoyable.
READ MOREStir Up the Senses: Sensory Play for You & Your Partner!
If you’re looking to stimulate your partner’s (or yours!) senses, you’ve come to the right place, my love. There are plenty of different toys and instruments you can use to get those so looked after reactions in your body.
READ MOREStrap it on!
Once you’ve chosen your dildo and your harness, it will be time to start playing with it. But before getting in the action, remember to have a test run first.
READ MORESubtle Yet Seductive Moves Any Woman Can Do
If you like a guy that isn’t yours yet and you want to flirt your way right through his heart, you have come to the right place. You may have probably heard this a million times, but I am here to tell you a million times more: eye contact is very important.
READ MORESubtle Ways to Flirt with Him
Part of the beauty of flirting is you can’t make it too obvious; trying to catch the attention of a guy you like without seeming like it was your intention can be a bit difficult, but with a little bit of guidance you can totally get there.
READ MORESurefire Confidence Boosters You Want Now
We all have our days off when we don’t feel as confident as we should be. It is completely normal to feel so. On those days you need something to increase your assertiveness.
READ MORESuspension Bondage Safety Guide
Suspension bondage does look incredibly exciting and beautiful, I know, I’ve been there wink*. But if you have reading long enough, you have probably read that suspension bondage can also be quite dangerous.
READ MORESweet Like Sugar-Cane - Properly Caning Your Sub
Caning is one the most common pleasurable aspects of BDSM. There are a lot of people who enjoy being canned…or use a can on somebody, in the other reverse case.
READ MORESwitch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?
Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.
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