10 Surprising Ways to Turn Him On
Whoever coined the phrase that men are easy has never spent three days trying to get one to carry out garbage. Men are hard-headed and stubborn is what men are. Granted, the phrase was speaking of sexually. But, I’m here to argue that one as well.READ MORE
5 Things To Make Your Sex Life More Interesting
Sex can become part of a couple’s evening routine and that kills the excitement, and when the excitement is not there, the entire relationship is in danger.READ MORE
5 Tips for the “Good Girl” Wanting Great Sex
Having great sex can be intimidating. The pressure to perform well for your partner while looking perfect can be a bit overwhelming. I remember being young, inexperienced, and terrified.READ MORE
5 Types of Fetishes You Didn’t Know About
People all over the world get turned on by different things and sometimes they find sexual pleasure in ways that most of us wouldn’t even consider. But maybe we should.READ MORE
7 Ways to End a Sexual Rut
Nobody wants to admit when they are in a sexual rut. It’s one thing when you are with your girlfriends and you complain about a guy you were with. His skills. His bad taste in positions. It’s about him.READ MORE
8 Reasons Why You Should Try Prostate Massage
Prostate massages haven been around for a very long time, but luckily for us, in recent times they have gained more popularity. No matter the man’s sexual preference, every time there’s more and more men who are doing these massages on regular bases.READ MORE
A Guide to Clitoral Pumps
The purpose of a clitoral pump (also known as a pussy pump) is to enhance a woman’s pleasure by creating suction around the clitoris and labia for increased blood flow to the genitals.READ MORE
A Helping Hand - Using Sex Toys to Climax Together!
Sex toys are a fun add-on to your sex life, but for some people it’s a bit more than that. Sex toys are a great aid for people who have trouble achieving orgasms and climaxing.READ MORE
A Powerful Mind - Understanding What Makes A Domnatrix
Like I’ve said before, a dominatrix is not born, it is made. Becoming a good dominatrix will most likely take some time and preparation, but with some preparation you can definitely get there.READ MORE
A Proper Spanking - Safety Tips & Tricks for a Good Spanking!
The first step is to discuss with your partner what you will be doing and why. If you are doing it as punishment, be clear about why it’s happening. If it’s something you wish to explore or try, “no reason at all”, you should also let them know beforehand.READ MORE
A Recipe for Sexiness - Spicing Up Your Sex Life with Bondage Play!
Sometimes you may feel you want to explore new things with your partner in bed. It may be you something you have always wanted to try with them or just something you may have never heard of but once you do, you may be inclined to do it wink*.READ MORE
A Romantic BDSM Valentine’s Day With Your Lover, Part 1
With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, you should probably start thinking about what your plans for the day will be. You may be planning a special dinner date or maybe you are planning to cook them a lovely dinner at home.READ MORE
A Romantic BDSM Valentine’s Day With Your Lover, Part 2
If you’re looking for ideas to surprise your partner on Valentine’s Day, you’ve come to the right place. Now, ideally any day is good in order to surprise them, but given the special date, you may be looking to try something different.READ MORE
A Safety First Guide to BDSM Sensory Play
Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.READ MORE
A Visit to the Vet for your Pony - The Physical Exam
In order for you to perform a physical exam on your pony, you will probably need to restrict them first…you don’t know if they will run when they see the equipment you will use wink*.READ MORE
A Weekend in Male Chastity
Online we see many stories and photos about chastity and denial. Tumblr has lots of photos with captions. The images of the gorgeous woman in a shiny rubber dress biting down on a tiny key talking about “how many weeks has it been?”READ MORE
Adventuring Down Below: A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play
Anal sex and anal play can be a sensitive subject for some. A majority of people are afraid to think about it, let alone try it! So, what is so great about anal play?READ MORE
Affair Proof Your Relationship
Some will be angered at the title. They will assume that the theory is that if your husband has an affair it is entirely your fault. That is not what I am saying. However, it is not always entirely his either.READ MORE
All ‘Bout Hoods!
Hoods are a necessity if you’re looking to engage in sensory play. They are also a necessity if you just plain like them and want to play in them wink*.READ MORE
All In The Wrist - Safely & Properly Caning Your Sub
Using a cane can be something very rewarding. And yes, rewarding for both the person handling the cane and the person receiving the hits.READ MORE
All Trussed Up - Creative Bondage Tape Play Scenarios
Bondage tape is one of the most fun and multipurpose items of bondage you can find. If you are on the lookout for different bondage and role play scenarios, you definitely get you some!READ MORE
Anal Sex Tips Everyone Needs to Know
Ever notice how you mention anal sex and everyone gets quiet? Well everyone except people like me. That’s because even in the world we live in, anal sex is still taboo. People don’t talk about that.READ MORE
Animal Instincts - Getting Inside the Mind of a BDSM Pet
Since you made it all the way through here, I’m going ahead and assume you are somewhat interested in pet play, wink*. As many before me had said before, the first step is to get interested on it, so good for you!READ MORE
Approaching a New Partner
When you are looking for a new partner in a BDSM relationship, it can work differently than the average couple getting together. In a typical world, the male and female (or any combination of the two) will meet, find themselves attracted and begin dating.READ MORE
Are Your Fantasies Normal?
Fantasies are fun. You get to close your eyes, or not, and imagine everything you ever want to try and experience in the world. It’s really no different than wanting to be an astronaut.READ MORE
Assuming the Position - How to Position to Get Spanked Properly!
Spankings are a thoroughly enjoyable activity, so I can imagine you’re always looking out for different ways to improve them, right? Wink*.READ MORE
Autumn’s Bondage 101 - The Breakdown of Different Gag Types
In a world of ball gags and bite gags and their infinite varieties, it can be very easy to get lost in them. And hey, I’m not saying that is bad thing, but sometimes you need to broaden your horizons and step out of your comfort zone.READ MORE
Floggers striking skin, whips cracking and leaving their marks, naked bodies bound in various positions. The scene is surreal, the music mysterious.READ MORE
BDSM in Public
Those into BDSM often want to go out together, but they feel they can’t continue the role playing experience in public. That is not true. It is possible to take your dom/sub relationship out into the real world.READ MORE
BDSM’s Best Friend: Puppy Play FAQ
As I’m definitely sure you are interested in puppy play, I’m equally sure you must have some questions. It’s ok, we all get them wink*. So I’ve compiled some of the most common ones in one place so you can get better acquainted with it wink*.READ MORE
Beginner’s Guide to Cross Dressing Behavior
Once you are feeling adventurous and finally decide to take the big plunge…towards crossdressing, wink*, you may feel you are not quite sure where to start or where to go from there or how to exactly apply make up or… *insert a million questions here*.READ MORE
Beginner’s Guide to Erotic Domination
Main thing a dominant should be is dominant…oh wow, blew your mind there, I know wink* What I mean is, a dominant should have the ability to be a leader and to command things.READ MORE
Beginner's Guide to Paddling
One of the best things about BDSM, bondage and role playing is that you can take something fun and expand on it to make it better. Paddling is a good example.READ MORE
Ben Wa Balls & Kegel’s - A Match Made in Heaven!
One of the best ways to use Ben Wa balls is to pair them together with Kegel exercises. Kegel exercises are important because they help with the strengthening of pelvic muscles and tightening of the vagina.READ MORE
Bigger IS Better! Using a Penis Pump Safely & Correctly
Penis pumps are commonly used by men who suffer from ED; it’s great for those who want to increase their penis size circumference and size. Pumps are plastic or glass tubes that basically create a vacuum.READ MORE
Break Out of Your Sex Comfort Zone
Sex should be fun. Sex should be thrilling. Sex should be exciting. Unless your only intention for sexual encounters is procreation, then you should be having one hell of a good time. If you are not, then it's time to change things.READ MORE
Breast Bondage 101: What You Need to Know!
Breast bondage is commonly used as a method or as a part of the submission training and process. As you may be aware, the breasts provide a very nice visual wink*.READ MORE
Bring a Friend
The biggest fantasy of women is to eat without gaining weight. But since my jeans show that I don't have that answer, we will discuss the biggest fantasy of most men. Threesomes.READ MORE
Burning questions about Men’s Kegels
You may have heard about Kegel exercises for men and have plenty of questions about them. There is some mythology and a certain area of mystery surrounding them, so it’s natural to have some doubts about them.READ MORE
Caning Tips & Tricks
A good caning will depend on a variety of factors, but you can always help your case by tilting the balance a bit in your favor. There are several aspects you can control, and as long as follow my advice, you will be known as the Cane Master.READ MORE
C’mon, Try Breast Bondage Already!
Breasts are a very sensitive and erogenous area for plenty of women out there. Most women love to be stimulated there because it’s highly satisfactory…and most men love the play with them because they love how they look and feel!READ MORE
Color Me Interested Lesbian Gender Play Ideas!
Gender play is a great addition to any sex life. Whether you are in a heterosexual or homosexual relationship, there are different ways to practice it in the bedroom (or the living room, the kitchen, the car?...) so if you are interested, you should start right away.READ MORE
Creating a Dominatrix
Being a dominatrix a lot of fun…for both the submissive and the dominatrix, of course wink*. If you are just starting out in this wonderful world, you may be eager for some tips and that is why I’m here for today.READ MORE
Creating The Feminine Mystique
When it comes to being a woman, your feminine charm is one of your best assets. You can get everything that you want if you know how to properly use your assets.READ MORE
Creative Control - Crafting Your Dominatrix Persona
Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just ok it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.READ MORE
Cross Dressing Makeup Tips
Make up is a huge part of a crossdresser. Make up has the power to create lines where there aren’t any and create illusions where angles are not there wink*. To begin with, men faces are bigger, don’t have that much cheekbones, have bigger noses and smaller lips than ladies.READ MORE
Don’t Be Afraid to Celebrate Your Sensuality
Celebrating your sexuality means getting to know and explore yourself in an intimate process, and not feeling ashamed for what you are and what you desire. What is your fantasy? What form of pleasure do you prefer to experience?READ MORE
Don’t Be Shy - Be a Kinkier You - Today!
So…. word around the street is you want to be kinkier, you naughty you wink*. The only thing you need to know is, you are going to have plenty of fun in your journey.READ MORE
Don’t Be Shy! Let’s Talk About Pegging!
Pegging is the sexual act where a woman uses a strap on to anally penetrate their male partner. As with so many sexual acts out there, any couple can try it, as long as they are willing to, wink*.READ MORE
Dress Up To Mess Around - Making Role Play Work For You!
Do you know how easily you can fall into a sort of sex routine? We humans are creatures of habit, and sex is definitely a part of that. Before you know it, you and your partner can be doing the same thing every single time.READ MORE
Dressing up for Sex
Whether we’re talking about sexy lingerie, hot costumes, or tight leather outfits, dressing up for sex has amazing erotic potential for keeping things spicy and interesting in the bedroom.READ MORE
Edging To The No Return
When you are practicing edging, you want to stop just before you orgasm. And that line between “I’m just about to climax no matter what happens” and “I can stop and be fine”, can be quite thin.READ MORE
Enlarge Your Penis Using Cock Pumps & Science!
Learning how cock pumps work is actually quite easy. Just like almost everything in the world and in life, science is the answer (and still, love remains a mystery wink*).READ MORE
Erogenous Areas for Men
Erogenous zones are wide and can vary from person to person, I mean, we all have our particularly sensitive spots that make us grow wild…but other zones tend to be pretty exciting for most of us.READ MORE
Erotic Blindfold Play
If you want to try something new in your sex life without doing anything too crazy, blindfolds are the perfect choice. And, dear reader, if you are a woman, it may be even better.READ MORE
Erotic Electric Orgasms
Electricity in sex is usually perceived as a way to inflict pain on your partner and while that can be true, it’s also true that electro toys can be modified, producing everything from very light stimulation to strong and painful impulses.READ MORE
Erotic Exploration of the Erogenous Zones!
The erogenous zones in your body are of utmost importance. Why? Because these are the most sensitive areas when it comes to achieving better arousal levels.READ MORE
Erotic Gender Identity Play
Gender identity is a key part of our sexuality and understanding how it works will make your life easier and will also help you get the most out of your sexual life.READ MORE
Erotic Hood Play
When I think about BDSM play, one of the first things that comes to mind is being tied up tight with a lot of sexy and silky bondage rope. And oh how that extra excitement from being erotically restricted gets the heart racing and blood flowing—to all the right places!READ MORE
I guess the word humiliation has some pretty negative ideas that go along with it, right? Even when I tie the word "erotic" to it, it still seems to carry some of that negative weight.READ MORE
Erotic Treats for Your Man
Men certainly are wonderful. But if you have lived with one long enough, you also know they can be quite a pain in a more kissable part of your body, if you know what I mean, giggles*.READ MORE
Essential Toys & Gear Everypony Needs!
If you are new to pony play or are interested in this creative BDSM play, you will need to start learning a lot of different things. Just like learning new things at school (but infinite times more fun!), pony play is a subject with its owns terms.READ MORE
Everyone Remembers Their First…Dildo!
Your first dildo experience will probably be something to remember for the rest of your life. The first thing you need to know is to always go slow and try it out on your own, even if you are planning on using it with someone else.READ MORE
Everything You Need to Know About Glass Sex Toys
Do you ever see glass dildos and think of them as a work of art? Their visual appeal—created from high-end glass, handcrafted in clear or other colors swirling together—separates them from dildos made from other materials.READ MORE
Eyes Wide Shut
Blindfolds can add a little special spice to a bedroom session. They are great because they highlight the senses; imagine covering your eyes and having no idea what your partner is going to do next.READ MORE
Female Masturbation Techniques
Masturbation is wonderful for everyone; especially for women. For some reason male masturbation is talked a bit more in general, but recently that taboo is breaking apart and female masturbation is gaining more widespread attention.READ MORE
Female Sexual Empowerment
Who doesn't like to be pampered? Having all your needs taken cared of, having massages and foot rubs, being the center of attention… Basically feeling like a goddess.READ MORE
Finding Anal Pleasure Without Anal Sex!
With modern times, more sexual practices come to light. It’s not they are new, but taboo around them diminishes and it’s more popular talking about them and sharing some light on the subject.READ MORE
Five Beginner Kinky Items to Spice Up Lesbians’ Sex Lives
Us Lesbians can be a bit old-fashioned. I’ve encountered a lot of us who have never tried toys, or maybe did but simply don’t like them. Personally, I find old-fashion a bit too boring; two fingers and a tongue can only do so much.READ MORE
From Lady to Sir
Crossdressing is not just for men, women can also enjoy this practice (like everything else in life wink*). The general principle is the same: looking like a member of the opposite sex.READ MORE