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We have all felt a little unsexy at some point in our lives. If you are a woman and have a beating heart, chances are at some point you have not felt like the beautiful creature you are.

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3 Creative Dress Up Ideas for Sex

You, like every other one of us, are beautiful and unique and you have to put these advantages at work when you choose a hot outfit.

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3 Kinky Uses of Long Hair in Bed

When it comes to using your hair during sex, here are a few ideas to get you started and encourage you to have an amazing sexual encounter!

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3 Surefire Ways to Have a Great One Night Stand

One night stands, as they are commonly referred to, can be a big challenge for some despite their intense sexual desires. Here are some tips and tricks to guide you through a one-night seduction experience to help you make the most out of such a sexual encounter!

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3 Tips to Be More Confident and Sexier in Bed

While some people have a certain sex appeal to give them a high level of confidence, others are just the opposite. Not to worry, you can use certain tricks to increase your confidence and allow you to shine in front of your partner especially during your hot sexual scene.

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3 Tips to Be Intimate in a BDSM Relationship

Here are some ideas to help you entertain both the emotional and physical aspects of your relationship while diving into BDSM practices. These will get you going on the right path and help you have a happy and healthy relationship for many years to come!

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3 Best Tips to Boost Your Sex Appeal

Everyone has sex appeal. So it is not a matter of who has it more. The problem is how to express it best so you can use it to attract the right person. But what is sex appeal and how can you use it as a tool to improve your sex life?

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3 Ways to Be More Confident to Feel Sexy in Bed

The way you feel when you enter the bedroom is important. It can have a crucial impact on the sexual encounter you plan to enjoy with your partner. But not to worry, you can use certain tricks to increase your confidence and allow you to shine in front of your partner especially during your hot sexual scene.

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3 Ways to Better Appreciate Your Body

Beauty magazines often promote perfection as the standard for how a person should look. Here are some pointers to help you understand at the same time cherish your body and its overall appearance!

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3 Ways to Dress Up for a Perfect Sex Scene

If you want to have an intense and exciting sexual life, well, it all starts with how you look. Remember, like everyone else, you are beautiful and unique. Use these to your advantage when choosing a hot outfit.

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3 Ways to Let Go of Sexual Anxiety for Women

Women tend to put more tension on their sexual life than men and that usually happens because they are spending too much time judging their body. Here are some ideas to help you overcome your insecurities and know your true value.

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5 Tips for the “Good Girl” Wanting Great Sex

Having great sex can be intimidating. The pressure to perform well for your partner while looking perfect can be a bit overwhelming.

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A Quick Guide to Lacing Your Corset

You should know most corsets come with their laces already tied and with instructions on how to wear attached to it. This informs you how to maintain your piece, and of course, how to use it.

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A Woman's Guide to Foreplay for Men

While it may seem like a guy is aroused from nothing more than a smile and a “hi”, that isn’t entirely true. Much like women, guys have their own preferences when it comes to foreplay.

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Amazing Ways to Make You Feel Sexier

You don’t need a specific outfit or a pair of shoes to feel sexy. Don’t get me wrong, those can definitely help. But sexiness is a state of mind, it comes from within. Being sexy means having confidence in your own sexuality.

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Beginner’s Guide to Dressing up with a Corset

Getting dressed while you are wearing a corset is not an easy feat. Indeed, such a restrictive garment binding your whole torso is a challenge any cross dresser or corset-wearing person can tell you about.

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Best Tips to Make Him Flirt with You

Knowing how to make men flirt with you can be an asset in your life. I have some tips to help increase your chances of a man making the first move to flirt with you.

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Best Tips to Feel Sexier in an Instant

You don’t need a specific outfit or a pair of shoes to feel sexy; don’t get me wrong, those can definitely help. But sexiness is a state of mind, it comes from within.

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Best Tips to Feel Sexy All the Time

You will feel sexy every day of your life if you nurture certain aspects of yourself. Feeling sexy is important because it will allow you to feel more confident and in control of your sexual power.

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Best Tips to Talk to Women

Let’s look at some of the best sex toys and accessories that you can use with your partner this winter!

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Best Ways to Be a More Confident Flirt

Wouldn’t it be great if it’s always sunny? Wouldn’t it be splendid if we could eat whatever we want without gaining weight? Sadly, life doesn’t work that way and still…life is beautiful even if it’s not perfect,so are we.

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Best Ways to Boost Your Feminine Traits

For some reason, a lot of people tend to downplay their feminine traits, or the behavior they consider to be more feminine, as if it is a bad thing.

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Best Ways to Charm a Girl with Humor

Almost every person only needs a few minutes to decide whether they like someone or not, so you definitely want to create a positive impact. To do this you will need to be likeable enough for her.

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Best Ways to Embrace Your Femininity

Being a woman means a lot of things depending on what you feel; just because you are a woman doesn’t mean you have to be in a certain way. The important part is to get in touch with what you feel is your own female energy.

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Best Ways to Indulge in Risky Flirtation

Taking risks and stepping out of your comfort zone can often lead to great things. In other words, it means being more open to new experiences like if you see something you like then go for it.

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Best Ways to Keep Him Interested in You

If you want to get a guy’s attention you should definitely take into account the following tips to help you out. Perhaps, more importantly you want to keep his attention once you have captured it.

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Best Ways to Master Impulsive Flirting

Impulsive flirting comes naturally to some people, while others tend to think about it more before approaching someone else. Being an impulsive flirt can be an asset.

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Best Ways to Seduce and Make Him Yours

You may have probably heard this a million times, but I am here to tell you a million times more: eye contact is very important. In order to get him to notice you, look at him but when he looks at you back, look away. He will be guessing whether or not you are looking at him or not.

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Best Ways to Work on Your Femininity

Having both female and male energies is necessary in order to have some balance in life. So when it is time to decompress they don’t really know how to connect with their lost feminine side.

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Bold Flirting Moves to Make Him Take Notice

Flirting is great to get the attention of someone you like, but sometimes you want to go the extra mile. In some cases, you want for him to really get it and in those cases; you need to be more obvious in your flirting.

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Celebration of Plus Size Sexiness

If you don’t know about such amazing and sexy options, let’s look together at some items that you can wear to feel like the sexiest woman in the world!

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Complete Guide to Fetish Ballet Heels

Ballet Heels are the definitive fetish fashion accessory for the ultimate fetish Prima Dona. Ballet Fetish Heel Shoes are beautiful and distinctive but they can be difficult to walk in unless you have ballet experience.

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Complete Guide to Role-Playing With Your Partner

If role-play has been on your mind for a while but you don't know how to approach that fantasy, here is a step-by-step guide to help you a little. I trust both you and your partner will be very happy after following these guidelines, wink*..

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Confident & In Control - Autumn’s Empowering Tips for Women to Make You Better At Sex!

Who doesn’t want to be better at sex? I think we can all agree is a subject of outmost importance in a person’s life; what’s more, it’s one of those things where you are constantly learning new things and having fun learning them…

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Creating The Feminine Mystique

When it comes to being a woman, your feminine charm is one of your best assets. You can get everything that you want if you know how to properly use your assets – breasts, eyes, brains, and legs – when you communicate with other people.

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Cross Dress For Success - Picking The Right Style For You

Knowing your body is key when it comes to dressing up. You will have to know your flaws and your assets in order to take advantage of them and present yourself the best way you can wink*.

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Cross Dressing Makeup Tips

Make up is a huge part of a crossdresser. Make up has the power to create lines where there aren’t any and create illusions where angles are not there wink*. To begin with, men faces are bigger, don’t have that much cheekbones, have bigger noses and smaller lips than ladies.

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Devil in the Details: Feminine Cross Dressing Body Language Tips

The purpose of every successful crossdresser is to successfully portray a woman, correct? And in order to do so, you have to be able to avoid any little thing that may hinder the process, right? Because, as they say, the art is in the details, wink*.

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Don’t Be Shy - Be a Kinkier You - Today!

So…. word around the street is you want to be kinkier, you naughty you wink*. The only thing you need to know is, you are going to have plenty of fun in your journey. As long as you keep an open mind, are willing to try new things and experiment a little, you will be just fine.

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Don’t Sweat It! Keeping Make Up Safe in Hot Weather

Any woman or cross dresser can tell you how hard it is to avoid keeping a running face of make up when it’s about 200 degrees out there (Ok, maybe I’m exaggerating, but you know where I’m going with this).

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Dressing up for Sex

Whether we’re talking about sexy lingerie, hot costumes, or tight leather outfits, dressing up for sex has amazing erotic potential for keeping things spicy and interesting in the bedroom.

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Easy Lessons to Flirt Better

The thing about flirting is that you should always try to get your best assets out there, kind of like a job interview; like your personality but better.

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Easy Tips for How to Flirt and Seduce Your Next Lover

First of all, you need to put in some effort. There is no way of faking this because you must lay your best version out there: the best version of yourself.

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Easy Ways to Feel Sexier

You should always feel sexy for your own sake and no one else. Feeling sexy is all about feeling confident in your own skin, appreciating and loving your personality and body.

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Easy Ways to Master the Art of Flirting with Women

Once you learn the key elements about how to flirt with women you have to practice it and then some. In time, being a good flirt and charming women would become second nature to you once you have done it often.

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Easy yet Proven Ways to Feel Sexy

You should always feel sexy for your own sake and no one else’s. Feeling sexy is all about being confident in your own skin, appreciating and loving your personality and body.

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Effortless Ways to Look Sexy

The good thing is you can also learn how to be sexy naturally. This has a lot of positive benefits to your overall well-being and you will also have better sex as a result!

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Erotic Treats for Your Man

Men certainly are wonderful. But if you have lived with one long enough, you also know they can be quite a pain in a more kissable part of your body, if you know what I mean, giggles*.

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Even More BDSM Role-play Ideas!

Role-playing is one of the most popular activities when it comes to BDSM. It can’t be practiced in about one million different ways; the limits of role-playing are basically between the creativity and the resources…and you can even go around those sometimes.

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Five Beginner Kinky Items to Spice Up Lesbians’ Sex Lives

Us Lesbians can be a bit old-fashioned. I’ve encountered a lot of us who have never tried toys, or maybe did but simply don’t like them. Personally, I find old-fashion a bit too boring; two fingers and a tongue can only do so much.

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Form-Fitting Fantasy - Finding the Right Bra Size!

Having the right fit when it comes to underwear should be mandatory. Not only will it make you look your best, but it will also make you feel the best.

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Getting Better Oral Sex: For Her

Having your partner go down on you is probably one of the greatest parts of sex. Especially when your partner knows what they’re doing.

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Getting In Touch With Your Feminine Side

Everyone is a little masculine and a little feminine. No one is 100% the same side. When we talk about masculinity and femininity we generally refer to masculine and feminine energies.

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Hidden in Plain Sight: Wearing your Bondage Gear in Public!

Sometimes you just want to continue to wear bondage outside the playroom! The fact you are not playing around the house with your partner doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the benefits of wearing some bondage.

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Hiding from the 5 o’clock shadow: Remove your beard cleanly for crossdressing

A beard can be the worse thing to happen to a cross dresser… Because, let’s face it, few things can ruin the illusion of being a woman as a beard does. Getting a closed shave can it’s really important here and mastering the technique can take some time.

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History of Sexy Halloween Costumes

Nowadays all costumes are allowed and appreciated, even if some or simply extremely sexy and not necessarily scary looking like the Halloween theme might suggest.

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How to Cross Dress

You may have heard the term before and been a bit intimidated, but crossdressing is nothing more than wearing clothes and accessories that are traditionally associated with your opposite sex.

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How to Do Erotic Home Photography

Taking sexy photos with your lover is an activity that will no doubt create some red-hot heat between the two of you. Aside from its sexual promises—generating an erotic setting which can lead to an extremely heightened state of arousal..

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How to Do Waist Training with Corsets

Waist training is a great method for all of those seeking a thinner and more slender waist. It is used widely by women all over the world…and it is also very popular amongst cross dressers out there.

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How to Flirt & Seduce with Texting

Texting is one of the most utilized forms of communication nowadays. It is also one way to continue your flirting activities with someone you desire.

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How to Get Your Crush to Kiss You & Crave You

So you have made all your flirty moves by now… and he still hasn’t kissed you. You are out with him or have been out a few times, but apparently he doesn’t get the signals you are sending him, even though he seems to like you back.

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How To Keep Your Sex Appeal At Its Height

Keeping your sex appeal thriving over the years is important for your personal happiness and sexual life. If you feel good and sexy in your skin, then your partner will also see you in the same way.

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How To Like Your Body More

But, if you cannot appreciate yourself, then how can you expect others to recognize your value? Here are some pointers to help you understand at the same time cherish your body and its overall appearance!

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How to Start a Conversation with a Stranger You Like/h4>

You are somewhere and you see a girl you like. Now, it would be easier if you knew her because you would be able to get close to her easily, but your moves will need to change when she is a stranger.

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How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The Red Room

Bedrooms serve multiple purposes such as: relaxation, intimacy, fantasies, sexual experiences, resting, but all of them have one thing in common-comfort.

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Key Secrets to Enchanting a Man

Being a woman is a great thing (except for maybe for three days of the month wink*) and one very good thing is our ability to completely enchant a man.

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Key Tips to Unblock Your Feminine Energy

Talk about equality between the sexes has been a lot lately and it couldn’t be better. As a matter of fact, we should have had those conversations ages ago, if you ask me *wink*.

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Learn To Walk In High Heels With Confidence!

Heels are one of the basics in every cross dresser closet, but learning how to walk around in them can be somewhat of a challenge. That is why is so important to master them properly, so keep reading to have the best tips on it wink*.

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Life after crossdressing Enjoying your new sex identity

If you had not noticed, sex after coming out as a cross dresser changes, wink*… But that is not a bad thing! It’s just that things will be a bit different, that is all.

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Maid to Order

What's not to like about a maid fantasy? It involves someone dressed in adorable (and sexy!) clothes serving you hand and foot…Besides, it offers plenty of fun and umm…interesting tasks to play with in a role play scenario.

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Make up Must-Haves - where you can splurge and where you can save

Every cross dresser can tell you make up is a necessity for them. Make up will help you create the illusion to successfully pass as a woman, so it’s important that you get and buy some basics.

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Mastering the art of Cosplay

If you think cosplay and costumes are a nerd's area, think again, because costumes can bring the thrill needed to make your bedroom's sessions explode with pleasure.

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Preparing your House for BDSM Play

There are lots of little things you can do to prep the bedroom so that when the time is right you already have the stage set. For instance, plan ahead for a bit of restraint.

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Pushing His Buttons - Male BDSM Turn-ons

Turning on your partner is a must have to experience a great sexual experience. And we all like to learn some new tricks every now and then, right? It is only natural to be on the look-out for new techniques to try in the bedroom…

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Quick Ways to Boost Your Confidence

We all have our off days when we don’t feel as confident as we should be. It is completely normal for this to happen, those are the days when you need something to increase your assertiveness.

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Seduce The Man of Your Dreams - A Goddess in a Woman's Dress

Ohh…how nice would it be to seduce the man of your dreams … It doesn't even have to be the man of your dreams, I mean, if you could just take home the cute guy you keep bumping in to, that'd be great.

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Sexual Health & Wellness

Health tends to be one of those things we take for granted; we don’t pay it much attention until something happens and we are obligated to treat it and pay attention.

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Sexy and Subtle Bump and Grind Moves with your Guy

Grinding with a guy is a great way to turn him on…in a sort of subtle way wink* There is something really arousing and sexy about pressing your butt against his crotch…and feeling it get larger by the minute, of course.

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Sexy Dance Moves That Will Turn Him On (And Yes, It Involves Grinding)

Grinding with a guy is a great way to turn him on… in a sort of subtle style, wink* There is something arousing and sexy about pressing your butt against his crotch… and feeling it get larger by the minute, of course.

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 1

Role play can be a great addition to any sex life. Or even a cool way to spice things up on a date or just a regular sex night (or morning? Wink) You do need to plan ahead in order to get the most out of it..

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Sexy Role Play Scenes, Vol 2

Role play can be a great way to have some fun and practice your creativity skills. Even if you haven’t practiced it before, it can be a great way to connect with your partner in a different way..

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Subtle Yet Seductive Moves Any Woman Can Do

If you like a guy that isn’t yours yet and you want to flirt your way right through his heart, you have come to the right place. You may have probably heard this a million times, but I am here to tell you a million times more: eye contact is very important.

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Support Your Girls! Choosing the Appropriate Breast Size for your Cross Dressing Persona

Any man who envisions himself as a woman sometimes probably has a clear idea about what kind of woman he wants to be and how will she look like.

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Surefire Confidence Boosters You Want Now

We all have our days off when we don’t feel as confident as we should be. It is completely normal to feel so. On those days you need something to increase your assertiveness.

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The Allure Of The Feminine Physique - How to Cross Dress & Look the Part!

Thou shall offer food. Make sure to have dinner ready when she gets home. Bonus points if you actually plan ahead what you will be eating...

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The Art of Flirting - How To Charm Any Woman

When you like a girl, you want to charm her… that is a kind of the whole point wink* But most of the time, you are not quite sure what that means, and you can end up blowing your chances with her.

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The Biggest Turn Ons for Men

Many things can turn on men and you can say everyone is different of course. But some universal things tend to really attract men. If you want to turn a man on without almost any effort then you have arrived at the right place.

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The fascination of wearing gloves and outfit accessories

When it comes to a perfect sexy outfit that you want to wear in order to impress your partner, you can go from one option to another before realizing how complex such a decision can be.

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The No Words Approach to Meeting Women

You may believe it is impossible, but you can actually get a girl to notice you without talking to her! Sometimes you really like a woman but haven’t had the chance to talk to her or you don’t know how to approach her.

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The Right Ways to Flirt

You might consider yourself quite a catch, you have a good job, you are attractive and you have great personality too. But none of these matter if you do not know how to flirt correctly.

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The Secrets to Impulsive Flirting

Impulsive flirting comes naturally to some people, while others tend to think about it more before approaching someone else. Being an impulsive flirt can be an asset. It definitely has some charm.

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Top Flirting Tips for Anyone with Low Confidence

Wouldn’t it be great if it’s always sunny? Wouldn’t it be splendid if we could eat whatever we want without gaining weight? Sadly, life doesn’t work that way and still…life is beautiful even if it’s not perfect, so are we.

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Top Secret Guidelines to Flirting with Men

You may be a bit intimidated in flirting with men. Don’t worry, all you need to do is to practice and read some tips regarding the subject. First, you need to utilize your body because you will be playing with body language.

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Top Secrets to Keep Him Hooked and Interested!

If you want to get a guy’s attention you should definitely take into account some tips that can help you out. And perhaps, more importantly you want to keep his attention once you have captured it.

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Top Tips to Make Her Notice You

I don’t think I am wrong when I say every man is interested in learning how to get a woman’s attention, so they can like you. You may be aware of this, but usually these things really do depend on the first impression you have on her; like it or not, appearances do play some part in here.

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Toucha-Toucha-Touch Me! Improving Sex Together with Intimacy

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having? There are plenty of ways, and it may surprise you how easy it is.

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Trilogy: The Know-It-All Guide to Successfully Flirt Through Text Part 2

Flirting by text can be a great way to strengthen the connection between you and your crush. Sending him or her a text every once in a while can help them think about you more often; this way you will always be on their mind.

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Waist Training Guide for Beginners

You have probably heard about waist training before. In fact, it has become more popular in recent years. But this technique has been around for a very long time, it is widely used by women and men who cross dress.

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What cha’ Got Down Your Clothes? Concealing Secrets When Cross Dressing 

If you are looking to strengthen the bond between you and your partner, sex may be a great way to do so. But how can you improve the sex you are having? There are plenty of ways, and it may surprise you how easy it is.

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What All Men Should Know About Flirting

You can learn to master those tips, so your flirting game improves significantly: the sky will be the limit once you learn how to do them properly.

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What You Need to Know Before Flirting with a Girl

Almost every woman has the power to know when a guy is flirting with her. Usually if the woman is interested, she will give signs. There are no guaranteed results, chemistry has a lot to do with this but, you can learn some tips to tip the balance in your favor.

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Why is Gold bondage gear so extremely sexy

So let’s see how gold bondage gear can change your entire perspective on sexual encounters and take the whole experience to a new and more exciting level!

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Why Sex Gets Better As You Get Older! 

This might come as a shock for you but sex actually gets better in time, just like wine. And by better, we mean the quality of it increases significantly thanks to different factors that you achieve along your years of experience.

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