Your Ultimate Guides to Male Submission

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10 Traits of a Natural Submissive

I talk a lot about the BDSM lifestyle. I also share quite often my personal preference for being a submissive and how I enjoy bondage and discipline and other forms of role play.

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A Beginner's Guide to Male Chastity

A male chastity device can seem a little intimidating at first, but like most unknown things, you need to get some information to lose the initial trepidation and fully enjoy the experience wink*.

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A Beginner's Guide to Male Chastity – Part 2

The first thing I hear regarding this subject is why should you need to acquire such device? Well, I have to say a lot of men love the idea of loosing control and relinquishing the sexual control to their partner.

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A Very Private Session - Cock & Ball Torture Ideas

Genital torture can come in a lot of ways, but I know sometimes we get stuck in the same route. It’s natural to settle into a sort of routine but occasionally we want something different or new.

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A Weekend in Male Chastity

Online we see many stories and photos about chastity and denial. Tumblr has lots of photos with captions. The images of the gorgeous woman in a shiny rubber dress biting down on a tiny key talking about “how many weeks has it been?”

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Advanced Cock and Ball Tease and Torture

The purpose of any play in the bedroom is pleasure for both Dom/me and sub. The word torture, with respect to BDSM, does not really mean the same kind of pain that a dictionary would lead a person to believe.

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BDSM Boundaries Near & Far - Setting Rules For Your Long Distance Relationship

No long distance relationship is the same. Well, not any relationship is just like another as well…but you know what I mean wink*.

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BDSM’s Best Friend: Puppy Play FAQ

As I’m definitely sure you are interested in puppy play, I’m equally sure you must have some questions. It’s ok, we all get them wink*. So I’ve compiled some of the most common ones in one place so you can get better acquainted with it wink*.

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Bow down to the female

Congratulations! You have jumped the shark and decided to transition to a female led relationship. And for that, I bow down to you, wink* But as you have probably found, there have been some obstacles.

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Ch-Ch-Chastity Devices (for Men)

So, after a lot of thinking and discussions about it with your partner, you have finally decided on the ultimate pleasure-giving-device (drum roll please):a male chastity device (OhMy…)

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Cock and Ball Tease Torture for Beginners

A man's genitals are the most sensitive area of his body, as well as the most vulnerable, so of course Dom/me's love to play with them! Both cock tease and torture have the power to build your male sub to the most intense of orgasms, and what sub wouldn't want that?

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Courting the Queen - Properly Looking for a Female Dom

If you are a man who has recently discovered they are more inclined to be submissive, you may find yourself a bit lost. Finding a partner is hard enough in vanilla life and dating!

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Desperately Seeking Dom - Finding the Right Master for You

Finding a partner is always a challenge. I mean is there something harder that finding someone that matches and complements us? Our personalities, tastes, distastes, interests, etc.?

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Don’t Be Shy! Let’s Talk About Pegging!

Pegging is the sexual act where a woman uses a strap on to anally penetrate their male partner. As with so many sexual acts out there, any couple can try it, as long as they are willing to, wink*.

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Erotic Humiliation

I guess the word humiliation has some pretty negative ideas that go along with it, right? Even when I tie the word "erotic" to it, it still seems to carry some of that negative weight.

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Erotic Male Domination 101

Popularity among male chastity is certainty on the rise. More and more women are choosing to represent themselves as liberated females in complete control of their sexuality through male chastity and with ownership of their guys.

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Erotic Male Slave Subjugation

Just like important news that are part of our collective minds, that "where were you when…" or the first time we knew we were in love with someone, its likely the moment you became interested and decided to pursue male training is engraved in your brain forever.

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Erotic Male Slave Training 101

Two sides of the same training coin: Sensual Subjugation and Willful Participation When it comes to disciplining males, there are two strongly opposed sides: the forced subjugation approach and the willful participation one. Let's read more about them, shall we?

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Experienced Lover: An Advanced Guide to Cuckolding Scenarios

Cuckolding fantasies are incredibly common but only a few get to actually go all the way. Most people just stick with the fantasy, but actual cuckolding play is less common.

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Female Sexual Empowerment

Who doesn't like to be pampered? Having all your needs taken cared of, having massages and foot rubs, being the center of attention… Basically feeling like a goddess.

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Feminine Power in Domination

I don't think I need to tell you about the benefits of male chastity because you already know them. Maybe you are even well acquainted with it? Wink* If you want a reminder, I can number a few.

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Flipping the Switch - Understanding BDSM Sissy Slaves

You may have heard of that term before but don’t really know what it means. And if you don’t know what it is, how could you know if you want to try it? Wink*.

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Following the Leader: the Daily Duties of the Submissive

You may believe the submissive person in a relationship doesn’t have to do anything besides what the Master instructs. And yes, that is true, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have other obligations.

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Forced Feminization FAQ

The sound of that word "forced" is music to my ears when BDSM is involved. The truth is, however, that in BDSM play, force is something that is part of a couple's created scene and has been agreed upon in advance.

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Four Reasons You Should Try Penis Plugs

For some the idea of a penis plug is a bit scary. Obviously you have already learned a little about them if you are researching further about the benefits of using them.

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Fun with ‘BOB & Peg’ - Pegging for Beginners!

Congratulations! You’re here because you want to try pegging. Or you may be here because you’re not entirely sure on what it consists? Pegging is the act where a man is anally penetrated by a female partner.

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Going all the way: Cuckolding Scene Ideas

If cuckolding has been in your mind for quite some time and you are really looking forward to trying it, I have some fun role play cuckolding scenarios that I’m sure you will be dying to recreate!

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Guide to Mummification

To be restricted is one of a slave's greatest desires. Being bound so tightly around their entire body, leaving them completely subdued, produces a kind of stimulation unlike any other.

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How to Be the Slave Master Craves

Pleasing Master is such a big part of a sub role—every action, big or small, can help to contribute to the stimulation and eroticism of experience as a whole.

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How to Get Your Man to Sexually Submit To You

All Dominants have one goal. They want their lover to submit to them. They want to have the control and gain the ultimate trust from their mate. Typically, they are with submissive natured lovers and this becomes a little easier.

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How to Reward the Submissive Male

One of the key components in any female led relationship is training. A submissive male must be trained properly and then he can be expected to adhere to your specific preferences.

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How to Wear Male Chastity Devices under Clothes

Chastity devices may sound like something from generations past, but they are quite common in the BDSM world of today. Both men and women are made to wear these chastity devices for a variety of reasons.

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Initiating a Relationship with a Dominant Female

In today's time, people struggle with introducing themselves and trying to form a relationship regardless of which type of person they are. It can be tough.

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Inside the Cage - Things to Know Before Your First Time With Male Chastity

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Besides, although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexual related experiences out there.

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Inside the Cuckoo’s Nest: Setting Cuckolding Scenes for You & Your Partner

If you often fantasy about cuckolding…welcome to the club, you’re not alone! Wink*. That one is definitely one of the most common fantasies out there, among both women and men.

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Is Orgasm Denial Effective in Female Domination

One of the keys in a successful relationship that involves female domination is training. The dominant woman -- often called a Mistress or Dominatrix-- will train the submissive male to behave according to her specifications.

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It's all in the chemistry: Male Orgasm Denial

They often say control is the key to power. Besides, who would disagree? "He who has control has everything" Oh, what a perfect saying…Except for a little detail. Change that "He" for a "She" and we are ready to go!

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Learn to Love Being Submissive to your Master!

Even if you feel you are a natural submissive, truth is, a great submissive is not born, it is made wink*. Every one can learn some things to be a better submissive; besides, you need to get in the right mindset in order to achieve all your goals.

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Let’s Talk Pegging & Your Relationship - Together!

If you are a woman looking forward to trying pegging on your partner, you may be unsure as to exactly how to approach the subject. I mean, it is not as if you will get out a harness and a dildo during sex and say, “honey, lube up"..

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Maid to Order: Having Fun Humiliating Your Sissy Sub

If there is one activity that can bring you (and your partner) endless time of games and fun, it’s sissy play. Plenty of men are into it (probably more than you think!), so chances are you are already partaking in some sissy related fun..

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Male Chastity and Orgasm Denial

Where I come from there is a little phrase that is always on my mind: “It is known you should not try male chastity… because the moment you do, you will be hooked forever wink*”

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Male Chastity Contracts

Want to make it official with your man and his chastity device? If you want to make it official, you will need a contract. Here are some guidelines as an example of how it could be; you can adapt from this and add o take the terms as needed. Good luck!

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Male Orgasm Calendar

Have you ever wondered what happens after a male achieves orgasm (besides the obvious, of course, wink*)? If you haven't, it's actually really interesting (seriously!)

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Male Slave Training 101

It is no secret learning new things takes time. Abilities, a new hobby, a new lifestyle… It requires informing yourself about everything that's necessary in order to dominate this new routine.

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Master’s Torture Chamber - Cock & Ball Torture

Genital torture can be a wonderful thing, even though the name implies something else wink*. Torturing the genitals is actually about that dual nature of alternating pleasure with pain.

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Matchmaker, Make Me A Match - The Right Dom for Me!

If you are a submissive, it may take you some time finding the perfect dominant for you. And that is ok; we’ve all been there. Choosing someone can be hard because this is a very strong commitment you’ll be sharing, so you want them to be the right person.

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Mistress Control

I have talked about controlling a man before, have I? It is one of my favorite subjects and one that is very useful. One of the good things is you can train your partner in very few simple steps.

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New to BDSM? Here’s what you need to know

We all have our own secret fantasies, buried deep down inside our mind. We all have that desire we keep hidden from the world. But why? What are we afraid of? Are we afraid that we will be judged for our desire?

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Ooh, La, La! Training Your Sissy Maid Properly

Training a sissy sub is quite complex but very rewarding. If you are interested on it, you will have to look out for the best method for you and your partner.

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Open For Anything! Let’s Talk About Pegging & Your Relationship!

Pegging is a fairly common fantasy for both men and women, so it’s not a surprise so many couples are trying it. If you’re not sure about where to start with this process of introducing pegging to your relationship, you’re not alone…

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Penned Punishment: Creating a Contract For Your Sissy Slave

If you are interested in making your sissy slave relationship more formal with established rules, we’ve got you covered wink*. This is a model to give you some ideas about what clauses this contract can include.

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Picture Perfect - Identifying Your Sub’s Interests

People have a wide variety of tastes. And for BDSM, finding that flavor is even more important. Figuring out what you like can take time but it is a necessity.

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Plug & Play - The Best Positions for Pegging

Whether you love pegging and are looking to get out of the routine and are looking for new positions to try it, or you’re a newbie considering for the best position to try it, you want to continue reading along.

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Putting the Dom in Dominatrix

What makes a dominatrix? Oh a question for the centuries. Each person will probably have something they associate closely with the term, but in general the terms include a mix of attitude and how you are presented.

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Sensual Male Femininity Training

Identity reframing implies a shift in a man's image of his own sexuality. With identity reframing, the main idea is to change how a man perceives himself.

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Seven Ways to Play Rough With Your Sissy Sub

Sissy play is incredibly fun to engage in. As with any form on bondage, there are different ways to do it and how you practice it and what you choose to partake of will depend on your imagination and creativity!

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Sex Radar Lover - Long Distance BDSM Ideas

Congratulations! You have chosen to embark on a long distance BDSM long distance relationship. With some tweaks, your relationship will work wonderful for both of you.

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Sexual Control Over Males

A woman’s sexual control over men is undeniable. Whether it is the possibility of intercourse or the withdrawal of it, women hold all the power in those scenarios. But these cases are somewhat limited towards the power a woman could have from it.

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Sharing your BDSM Fantasies

Introducing the idea of bondage and BDSM to your partner can be a bit nerve wracking. Whether is a new partner with whom you want to share your lifestyle or an old one that you want to get interested in this newfound passion of yours.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 1

If you have a sissy slave, chances are you are constantly looking for new ways to humiliate them. And sometimes you run out of ideas, so how about you read on to find some creativity.

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Sissy Slave Humiliation List, Pt. 2

If you’re looking for some inspiration to humiliate your sissy slave, this list might give you some ideas. The good thing is, even if you don’t do it exactly like it says, you can always adapt it your needs or give it your own twist..

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Sit, Stay, Beg! Try BDSM Pet Play With Your Partner!

Pet play is one of the ways a couple can practice BDSM and the D/S lifestyle. It has a great number of members and it’s quite a well-known subculture among the lifestyle. So, want to know what is it all about? Wink*

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Switch Dynamics: Who gets tied up tonight?

Dan flips a coin, Michelle calls it in the air... Heads. The coin slowly flips and tumbles its way to the floor. They both wait for it with anticipation. The coin hits the floor and rolls a bit before finally landing in its resting spot.

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Ten Ways to Please Your Dominant Female Partner

Are you a submissive male that wants to please his partner? Good. That is exactly what you are supposed to want. But how do you go about that? Well, there are a lot of ways and some of them are specific to the person you are with.

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The 18 Commandments of a Great Slave

Thou shall offer food. Make sure to have dinner ready when she gets home. Bonus points if you actually plan ahead what you will be eating. This is the perfect way of letting her known you are on his mind and you are aware of her needs.

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The Fulfilling Effects of Male Chastity on your Relationship

Male chastity can be incredibly fun and it’s a great way to add a little something special to your relationship. Although it may sound scary at first, it’s actually one of the most fulfilling sexually related experiences out there.

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The submissive Role in BDSM

I think we can all agree every relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM, can benefit from some negotiation. Negotiation is nothing more than having a discussion about the practices and expectations about the relationship and the activities…

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The Submissive’s Checklist!

There are several things a submissive has to keep in mind when they enter a submissive - dominant relationship. They will need to be respectful, tend to their master and obey them, for instance.

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The Submissive’s Mantras

The submissive mindset is a curious thing. For your relationship to work you need to obey your Master and that is the way it should be. However this can make up for some trickier things.

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Training Your Man to Obey

I believe that even the most submissive of woman has from time to time had the sexual fantasy of dominating her lover with bondage. The delicious and intoxicating feeling of being fully in control of your lover is truly seductive and highly erotic.

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Try Urethral Sounding and Never Look Back

As human beings we are profoundly curious. And most of the time that is definitely a good thing, especially when it comes to your body and sexuality because in this case, curiosity has not killed any cats, wink*.

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Trying out BDSM for the very first time?

So, you have decided to try out BDSM after all those years of reading about it on the internet. Well, you have made the right decision. In the world of BDSM, you are in for a lot.

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Under my Thumb - Ways to Keep Your Male Sub Emasculated

If you are a dominatrix, chances are you are always looking out for new ideas to humiliate and emasculate your man. So, if you woke up today thinking to yourself, “man, I wish some good ideas would come my way”

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Weighted Wearables - An Introduction to Cock & Ball Bondage Devices

When it comes to bondage, the possibilities are endless. It depends on what you like or what particular scene you want to try. But sometimes, something new may come in your way you didn’t thought about before…

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What is a Female Led Relationship?

The basic dynamic of a female led relationship is one in which both partners agree that the female will be the head of the relationship. The leader if you will.

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What is Cuckolding and Why Should We Try It?

Cuckolding is one of the most common searched terms out there so it’s safe to assume it’s one of the most common fantasies.

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What is submission? 

Submission is a mystery to many. What is submission? Is it real? How do I get there? Is it safe? How will I know if I am in submission? How does it feel?

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What Makes a Man Choose Submission?

I can't count the number of times I've heard someone ask what makes a man choose submission. I've never really thought about it much as I also never really think about what makes a woman choose submission.

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What Type of Submissive are you?

They say that variety is the spice of life. Some perceptive (smartass) individuals would like to point out that spices are a personal preference and that everyone has their favorites.

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Yee-haw! Training Your Pet Pony for Playtime!

The main point about having a pony is to play with it, right? And just like any other form of play, it’s going to take some effort to get there…and just like any kind of play, it’s definitely worth it wink*.

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You Belong To Me - Training Boundaries for your new BDSM Sissy Slave

A sissy slave loves to please their Mistress or Master, obviously. During the training process you will experience a great amount of things, depending on the activities your master/mistress decides and how long the sessions are.

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Your First Time: Wearing a Dildo Harness

Your first time wearing a dildo harness can be somewhat intimidating (just like any first times, really) but you don’t need to worry about it. The first thing you need to know is, for your dildo to work, it will need to have a flared base.

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