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24/7: Sexy and Confident

We have all felt a little unsexy at some point in our lives. If you are a woman and have a beating heart, chances are at some point you have not felt like the beautiful creature you are.

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3 Advantages of Sex during Pregnancy

Sex during pregnancy has its advantages you should enjoy while you can because they are temporary! Here are the main advantages to have sex during pregnancy and how you can make the most out of it!

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3 Benefits of Sex with a Transgender Partner

Now, this is something to try. That is, if you get the chance! A sexual encounter with a transgender partner will be mind blowing and exciting at the same time and will increase your sexual pleasure and understanding of your own sexuality.

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3 Best Ways to Use Your Mouth during Sex

There are many things you can do with it during your sexual encounters or according to your sexual preferences. Here are some ideas to get you started on the right path!

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3 Common Sex Mistakes to Avoid in Bed

A good sex life might seem like a given, at least at the beginning of your relationship. But the hard part of it is how to keep the passion going for years to come. Try to stay away from these common mistakes so you don’t find yourself in this situation and turn things off in the bedroom.

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3 Erogenous Zones to Touch during an Erotic Massage

First thing to keep in mind when you are giving your lover a hot amatory massage is, you need to help them relax. Stimulate them in a sexual way. Add the right amount of passion to such a scene and discover new erotic ways to please your lover.

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3 Main Reasons Why Too Much Sex is Bad

There are certain general conditions you should limit your sex life, most cases for your own sake. If you don’t find yourself trapped in any of these conditions, well, lucky you! But just in case, here are the scenarios requiring certain limitations on sex.

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3 Ways to Feel Intense Pleasure If You Are Gay

Gay people tend to be very sexual individuals, whether or not they are in a committed relationship. If you are part of the gay community, you will love to hear some tips and tricks to significantly improve your sex life and your relationship.

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3 Ways to Keep a Healthy and Hot Sex Life

A healthy sex life can equate to a healthy relationship and a very happy one too. But how do you maintain a healthy sexual life and what does it mean?

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3 Ways to Keep Your Focus during Sex

If you struggle with staying focused on your lover during your sexual encounters because of all your other thoughts or fantasies, here are some things you can do to bring your attention back on your partner.

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3 Ways to Keep Sex Alive after Years of Marriage

After you have identified the cause of your sexual routine, it is time for some intense adventure that will help both you and your partner discover new ways of reaching an orgasm. Here are some ideas that will save you a lot of research and guessing when it comes to surprising your partner in the bedroom!

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3 Ways to Master the Art of the Quickie

Having a hot quickie every now and then can be exciting. Here are some useful tips and tricks to help you develop a great strategy so you can enjoy this type of sexual experience!

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3 Ways to Make Quickies More Intense

Having a hot quickie every now and then can be exciting. But you shouldn’t exchange long hours of making love for just a couple of minutes of pleasure.

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5 Major Relationship Red Flags

Ladies we have a gut instinct. You know what I’m talking about. That nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that tells you something is just not right. Sometimes it works in our favor and dances as we realize things are great.

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5 Things To Make Your Sex Life More Interesting

Sex can become part of a couple’s evening routine and that kills the excitement, and when the excitement is not there, the entire relationship is in danger.

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5 Tips for the “Good Girl” Wanting Great Sex

Having great sex can be intimidating. The pressure to perform well for your partner while looking perfect can be a bit overwhelming. I remember being young, inexperienced, and terrified.

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5 Ways to Kill the Mood

Nothing is more agonizing and frustrating than being sexually stimulated and losing out on the chance to satisfy it. Don’t deny it ladies. You know what I mean. Our bodies aren’t designed to just forget about it and move on.

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5 Ways to Set the Mood

I could start by saying that if you want to set the mood for a man, simply say hello. Made you laugh, didn’t I? No, it’s really not that simple to entice a man. Unless you are at the bar and he’s a few drinks in.

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7 Signs You Need to Define Your Relationship

There was once a time when you defined your relationship status in one of three ways. You were single, dating or married. There was no in between and there certainly was no uncertainty.

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A guide about STD’S

Sexually transmitted diseases or STDs spread when a person has sexual contact with an infected person. By sexual contact I’m referring to any type of sexual contact or activity that involves the penis, the vagina, the anus and the mouth, not just plain penetrative sex.

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A Helping Hand - Using Sex Toys to Climax Together!

Sex toys are a fun add-on to your sex life, but for some people it’s a bit more than that. Sex toys are a great aid for people who have trouble achieving orgasms and climaxing.

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A Powerful Mind - Understanding What Makes A Domnatrix

Like I’ve said before, a dominatrix is not born, it is made. Becoming a good dominatrix will most likely take some time and preparation, but with some preparation you can definitely get there.

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A Recipe for Sexiness - Spicing Up Your Sex Life with Bondage Play!

Sometimes you may feel you want to explore new things with your partner in bed. It may be you something you have always wanted to try with them or just something you may have never heard of but once you do, you may be inclined to do it wink*.

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A Romantic BDSM Valentine’s Day With Your Lover, Part 1

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, you should probably start thinking about what your plans for the day will be. You may be planning a special dinner date or maybe you are planning to cook them a lovely dinner at home.

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A Romantic BDSM Valentine’s Day With Your Lover, Part 2

If you’re looking for ideas to surprise your partner on Valentine’s Day, you’ve come to the right place. Now, ideally any day is good in order to surprise them.

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Affair Proof Your Relationship

Some will be angered at the title. They will assume that the theory is that if your husband has an affair it is entirely your fault. That is not what I am saying.

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Aftercare FAQ

Aftercare involves attending to the intense physical and psychological feelings that can occur after a BDSM session, continuing that deep connection you felt.

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Are Your Fantasies Normal?

Fantasies are fun. You get to close your eyes, or not, and imagine everything you ever want to try and experience in the world. It’s really no different than wanting to be an astronaut.

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A Safety First Guide to BDSM Sensory Play

Although it may seem harmless, you will always need to practice some safety measures when you’re playing with something BDSM related… but I’m sure you already knew that, right? Wink*.

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Autumn’s Bondage Ideas - Vol. 1 - Light Sensation Play & Roleplay

There are plenty of things you can do with bondage, am I right? Especially if you have a willing partner who also loves to participate… wink*.

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BDSM Boundaries Near & Far - Setting Rules For Your Long Distance Relationship

No long distance relationship is the same. Well, not any relationship is just like another as well…but you know what I mean wink*.

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BDSM & Me: What Is Your Style Of BDSM?

For those of you who are just getting interested in BDSM, you may wonder about the mechanics of it all. Why do people like to do this? Why is this something that attracts a person?

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BDSM Pet & Pony Play - Establishing Safe Boundaries

Pet play is one of the greatest things about BDSM. However, as basically every other fun practice, you will always need to look into some safety measures in order for your play to be smooth.

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BDSM Power Exchange and Responsibilities: Dealing with “Drop”

Communication is vital at every stage, including in the aftermath of a scene. When you build a scene in real time and you both get hot and sweaty and then orgasm and are so exhausted you don’t even argue over who gets the wet spot, it is easy to forget what should come afterward.

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BDSM Principles

There are three basic principles in BDSM community - Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC). All participants in a BDSM play must agree to these three principles of guidance and relationship activities in order to avoid any undesired situation.

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Better Honeymoon Sex Tips - Don’t Just Say ‘Yes’, SCREAM It!

The time has finally arrived; you and the love of your life decided to make it official and got hitched. Now, I know planning a wedding tends to be quite stressful, no matter how small or intimate event you choose to have.

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Bold Flirting Moves to Make Him Take Notice

Flirting is great to get the attention of someone you like, but sometimes you want to go the extra mile. In some cases, you want for him to really get it and in those cases; you need to be more obvious in your flirting.

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Break Out of Your Sex Comfort Zone

Sex should be fun. Sex should be thrilling. Sex should be exciting. Unless your only intention for sexual encounters is procreation, then you should be having one hell of a good time.

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Commandments for a BDSM Kitten Girl Owner

When you are calling them, refer to them as princess. They are royalty after all. Once in a while, instead of milk for their bowl, get them some chocolate milk. For a treat, fill the bowl with champagne.

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Confident & In Control - Autumn’s Empowering Tips for Women to Make You Better At Sex!

Who doesn’t want to be better at sex? I think we can all agree is a subject of outmost importance in a person’s life; what’s more, it’s one of those things where you are constantly learning new things and having fun learning them.

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Courting the Queen - Properly Looking for a Female Dom

If you are a man who has recently discovered they are more inclined to be submissive, you may find yourself a bit lost. Finding a partner is hard enough in vanilla life and dating!

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Creating the Perfect Scene For Your Sub, Vol 1

Coming up with fun play scenarios for your sub can be a bit of challenge. As you know, not all submissives are created equally, so not all scenarios will satisfy every sub.

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Creating the Perfect Scene For Your Sub, Vol 2

Once you figure out what kind of sub you have on your hands, it will literally make planning scenes easier. Not everyone likes the same things and subs have different reasons why they like what they like.

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Creating the Perfect Scene For Your Sub, Vol 3

When you know what your submissive likes, playtime can start! Bondage can come in so many shapes and varieties; it’s hard to limit them down to just a few.

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Creative Control - Crafting Your Dominatrix Persona

Being more dominant in your sex life is more than just ok it’s actually encouraged! There is something about having all the power and being in control that is completely exhilarating.

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Crossdresser Transgender Breaking Through Label Boundaries

Every crossdresser is probably faced by that question at some point in their lives. That crisis identity is normal, because hey, we are all human beings in pursuit of their sexuality.

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Cruel to be Kind: Tips for a dominatrix in Session

If you are interested in the Dom/Sub world, you may wonder exactly how the training sessions go. The first thing you have to keep in mind is every session will be different, because it will depend on the person and the goals you two have agreed upon.

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Desire Made Real: Domination Starts With You!

If you have recently decided to embark on the wonderful journey of being a dominant, you may be somewhat at loss. And that is normal! Like anything that is new, it can feel frightening and exciting.

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Desperately Seeking Dom - Finding the Right Master for You

Finding a partner is always a challenge. I mean is there something harder that finding someone that matches and complements us? Our personalities, tastes, distastes, interests, etc.?

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Does Size Penis Really Matter?

As a woman I can attest to the fact that we do not put nearly as much emphasis on the size of a penis as the guys do. Somehow they believe that touting how large they are is the guaranteed way to make us want to experience it.

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Don’t Be Afraid to Celebrate Your Sensuality

Celebrating your sexuality means getting to know and explore yourself in an intimate process, and not feeling ashamed for what you are and what you desire. What is your fantasy? What form of pleasure do you prefer to experience?

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Erectile Dysfunction Causes

The penis is a source of much pleasure…but it can also cause some issues. At any point in their lives, men can suffer from erectile dysfunction.

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Establishing the Basics

I know I’ve probably mentioned this about one hundred times, but BDSM can come in any way you like. BDSM related activities can be as kinky or as vanilla as you like.

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Facts About BDSM That Fifty Shades of Grey Left Out

Fifty Shades of Grey caught everyone’s attention upon its publication a few years ago, and it seemed to remain in the spotlight for quite some time.

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Figuring out the Male Orgasm

While the female orgasm tends to get more press because it is a bit more elusive and “complicated” than the male counterpart, masculine orgasms also have their own things and particularities.

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Finding Anal Pleasure Without Anal Sex!

With modern times, more sexual practices come to light. It’s not they are new, but taboo around them diminishes and it’s more popular talking about them and sharing some light on the subject.

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Five Easy Tips for Incredible Sex

Sex is a normal part of everyday life – however there is no standard for what actually constitutes as ‘normal sex’ or a ‘normal sex life’. The difference between normal sex and incredible sex is highly subjective.

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Flipping the Switch - Understanding BDSM Sissy Slaves

You may have heard of that term before but don’t really know what it means. And if you don’t know what it is, how could you know if you want to try it? Wink*.

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Following the Leader: the Daily Duties of the Submissive

You may believe the submissive person in a relationship doesn’t have to do anything besides what the Master instructs. And yes, that is true, but that doesn’t mean they don’t have other obligations.

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Fun with ‘BOB & Peg’ - Pegging for Beginners!

Congratulations! You’re here because you want to try pegging. Or you may be here because you’re not entirely sure on what it consists? Pegging is the act where a man is anally penetrated by a female partner.

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Get Connected With Online BDSM Relationships

Plenty of people start relationships online. With the rise of technology, is not a surprise a majority of people are finding their partner in the World Wide Web.

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Going all the way: Cuckolding Scene Ideas

If cuckolding has been in your mind for quite some time and you are really looking forward to trying it, I have some fun role play cuckolding scenarios that I’m sure you will be dying to recreate!

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Good sex = Happy life

Your sex life is like a plant, you have to maintain it so it doesn’t die…weird analogy, but very appropriate. I mean, just as you take care of the relationships in your life and you invest time on them.

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Great Sex during Pregnancy

Oh pregnancy, that wonderful time in a woman’s life. You are nurturing and growing a baby inside of you; that has its perks but also has its downfalls.

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He/She/Me? Understanding Gender Identities

Gender identity is a key part of our sexuality and understanding how it works will make your life easier and will also help you get the most out of your sexual life.

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“Hi Love, Do You Want to Try Bondage?” - Asking the Question in Your Relationship

Having a new partner it’s always exciting and a bit nerve wracking as well. You don’t know what they enjoy in bed or what turns them on and they don’t know those things about you either.

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How To Be A Good Dominant For Your Partner, Part 1

What makes a good dominant? The answer may vary from person to person. But there are some aspects that are universal. These are some characteristics submissives appreciate; a relationship can benefit highly from practicing some of these qualities.

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How to Give the Perfect Hand Job

Giving your guy a hand job can be great foreplay. He will not only fall in love with you but he will cherish your hands a lot more once you get good at this type of “job”. So, learn some secrets to drive him crazy!

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How to Have Hot Pregnancy Sex

Hormones can cause quite a roller coaster in our bodies and general self’s. And when you are pregnant, that roller coaster can go on a million miles per hour.

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How To Overload Their Senses & Blow Their Mind During Sex!

No matter how long we have been having sex or how many times we have done it, there are always new tricks and ideas to learn, don’t you agree? Wink*.

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How to Pick Up a Woman (without dying in the process)

Nobody is born learning a particular skill. Yeah, sure, some people have an innate talent for something, but they have to work on it.

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How to Protect Yourself From an STI

An STI is a bacteria that can cause illness without the sign of any symptoms, giving it the name Sexually Transmitted Infection. While STD refers to infections that cause symptoms or problems, giving it the name Sexually Transmitted Disease.

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How To Turn Your Bedroom Into The Red Room

Bedrooms serve multiple purposes such as: relaxation, intimacy, fantasies, sexual experiences, resting, but all of them have one thing in common-comfort.

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